What would you do if the one your really love and the one that you want to marry has a different beliefs [religion], and he / she said the his/her belief is the truth, but you know it is not, and he/she doesn't believe in you, and told your that you're belief is 100% false, and he/she doesn't listen to your belief, but he/she wants you to believe his/her belief. You really love each other, and you don't wanna leave each other, but no one's gonna give up of what they believe... T__T what's ur opinon?
2006-10-05 08:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by Jehzeel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay, this is the way my husband & I handled this very thing. He believes in God, but is a Mormon. I believe in God, & I am Babtist. So instead of making it an issue, we decided that religion isn't what is important here. What "is," important, it that we "both" believe in God. And by the way? God didn't make a "religion", man did. So somehow I don't really think God cares one way or the other "how" you believe, just that you "do." Okay? Hope this helped you somehow, it did us. good luck
2006-10-05 08:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question their devotion to their faith if they are dating outside of their religion. IF their religion was so important and the only truth, then why didn't they seek someone who shared their beliefs? It seems hypocritical to me. You can't say MY FAITH is the only truth, yet date around outside your faith.
I would say this problem means you're not compatible. Period. You need to understand that if the future means family and children and religious celebrations and you're not on the same page, it won't work. Love is a part of marriage, but you need to be compatible.
I don't think the marriage would last. I mean-- what kind of wedding ceremony would you have?
2006-10-05 08:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love that person you can learn to accept that they are not going to change their beliefs but they also need to accept that you are not going to either. As long as you both don't try to push at each other about your beliefs you can make it. But If you keep going at each other about it then it's not going to work and you will end up fighting more than you do anything. Just try to give each other space on that subject.
2006-10-05 08:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by texaschick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would know that many problems will be ahead
How to raise children
How to spend money
How to be with each others family
Where to live
the food you eat
answer these and then you will know if you can work it out.
It can but it takes work lots and lots of work
Religion is a hard one to take to task Understand each and pray for guidance
2006-10-05 08:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by aaricka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You agree to disagree on the subject and call it taboo in your relationship. Just because the two of you are in love does not mean that you have to be the same. The only issue I see here is if you want children together someday, at that point the two of you would have to come to some kind of agreement.
2006-10-05 08:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both have to respect each other's opinion, otherwise there is no use of getting married. relations that are not based on understanding and respect of each other will not last long.
On the other hand I don't think that religion can be unsolved problem for people who really love each other.
P.S. My advice never give up your belives (in anything) for anybody or you are going to loose respect of yourself. One who doesn't love her/his self can not love other.
2006-10-05 08:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea thats kinda tough...that kinda puts a strain on the relationship when the two people are not equally yoked together. I know peopel like that and their relationship did not last or is on the rocks now. It really is a bad sign. Maybe you two can talk about and you can try to show him/her about your religion.
2006-10-05 08:09:14 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you or the other person dont pressure one another into believeing what you believe, then u should be fine, u dont have to have the same beleifs, just dont talk about relgion cos neither of you will ever agree & it will just start arguments, if religon is extrememly important to both of you & you plan on being together forever then i would at least agree on what you would do if you ever had kids, but for now, if there are no kids involved who cares if you have seperate beelifs in relgion? if he/she loves u, then he/she would just accept the fact that you believe in sumthing diff then they do....
2006-10-05 08:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by dapoet89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 21:13:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beliefs have to be shared. Relegion like politics makes for strange bedfellows. It is MHO that this relationship will be built on failure if neither is willing to compromise. Relationships have to be built on trust, honor, compromise, understanding, & having an open mind. This person sounds close minded to me.
2006-10-05 08:11:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋