what should i do?

Question

i m using drugs since 2003 dec regularly.it is like codine ,corex,and opehium,also now i dont wanna use it ,my age is 27,before marrige i did,t use any drug ,i m vegetarian also,but after marrige in 2003,i used to that things .the big reason is that there is no understanding between my wife and me?ibut i can,t leave drugs ? plz tell me/??????????? what should i do???????????????

Answer 1

u should make u r mind to drop this habbit . no one can help u even u r wife . u have to do it make u r mind.

Answer 2

I smoked (also a drug) heavily for quite a long time.

51 years!

and that's a.......... l-o-n-g....... time.

I decided to stop.
So I stopped.

Yes, it was hard
but I did it - now been 3 years.

BUT - WARNING
There is a side effect

After being a slave to something for such a long time, and then finally breaking free from it - you get 10 times the high that you would get with any drug.

You feel so good in yourself that you feel you could dance the night away - or climb Everest in one mighty bound - or pick up a lorry with one hand.

Yes, it's hard work - but Oh boy, 3 months later and you will be on a permanent high.

Go for it - if I could break a 51 year habit, you can do it

Answer 3

Consult your doctor. See the world. Is the person who is not taking drug dies? You should make your mind that you will not take drug more. You are bound to leave drugs. There no any reason between any missunderstanding between you and your wife. It's a normal thing. Study her, she will love but before that you have to love her.

Answer 4

Your verbiage is apparently suffering as a consequence. Two things need to be done. 1. You need to admit to yourself that you are out of control. 2. You need to find somewhere you can lock yourself up until your system is clear of the drugs.

If your marriage seems to stimulate your anxiety [the probable cause for the drugs], you need to seek specific help in getting to the non-conscious memory that is being stimulated. But such therapy would not be possible until you were clear of the drugs.

Peace

Answer 5

For continuing with a suicidal habit, you may invent hundreds of reason. Even your situation is like hell, you cannot continue to resort to drug, because that does take you to heaven nor does it rescue from the hell. You consider yourself as an individual. You may even decide to quit your wife, with whom you say you have problem. But, come out , you must , of this deadly sin.

Answer 6

slowly get away from drugs before everything falls apart, i know it will be hard but everyday use it less and less, let your wife know that you are really trying to help yourself. because the reason you dont get along with her is probably because of the drugs. I used to cut my wrists and legs all the time, i just recently stopped but i helped my self by cutting less and less everyday,, and now all my scars are gone. so cut down on drugs and your scars will fade to. good luck

Answer 7

well i think you need to go to a rehab clinic to get off the drugs and then you need to go to a therapist who can talk about your marriage preferably with both of you there and you have to be ready to take criticism as this will be painful. A therapist could be a professional or a priest or a volunteer

Answer 8

Sounds to me you need help in two areas: drug and marital. Get help NOW with your drug problems, and go see a marriage counsellor regarding issues between you and your wife.

Good luck!

Answer 9

talk to your wife and make sure she knows the extent of your problem. then get professional help. once you are off drugs, you should go to a family / marital psychologist to solve your relationship problems.

Answer 10

ask your wife for help,if she loves you she will help and if she doesn't leave the relationship because nothing is worth losing your life over drugs.get proffesional help.that is also the best way to fight drugs.