I have this friend and i know she is cheating on her b/f alll the time! her b/f told me the other day that he didn't know what he would do if he found out she was cheating on him he loved her so much! i don't know what to do....any advice?
2006-10-05 07:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by --Br0oklYn-- 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would encourage the friend to come clean with the b/f. Its not fair to him to be in a relationship where the friend has no concern for his feelings and well being. If you get no where with the friend i would tell the b/f only because the reltionship is holding bbotrh of them back and honesty should be number one in the rel.ationship. There relationship is based on a lie.
2006-10-05 08:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by kristyn m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay loyal to your friend, but let her know that what she is doing could really hurt someone that cares about her. He said he loves her and his feelings would get crushed knowing that she is cheating. So give her a chance to make things right, and if she doesn't then tell him so he won't go farther into the relationship.
2006-10-06 19:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should plead the 5th on this one. First thing NOT to do is tell your friend's boyfriend that she is cheating on him. Its a. none of your business, b. not your place, and c. thats just foul on your part as a friend! Next thing TO DO is tell your friend how you feel. But make sure you tell her that you know its none of your business just in case she gets all upset and start acting weird. Tell her that you care about her and her relationship. Tell her what her boyfriend said and how you know it is hurting him and her and their relationship. Then let her make the rest of the decisions because in the end she will get caught!
2006-10-05 07:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by Patty J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it does not sound right, but you will end up losing your friend if you rat.
If he is not your friend and she is then don't tell. But if you were friends with him first then you just need to find a way for him to catch her so it doesn't look like you told on her.
2006-10-05 08:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut because it doesn't concern you. And this guy will find out in due time because what goes on in the dark will surely come to light and you can only do wrong for so long before it catches up with you.
2006-10-05 07:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by cutie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
tell your friend that Karmas a *****,,what goes around comes around..she is gonna fall in loe with somebody one day and they gonna turn around and do the same thing to her
2006-10-05 08:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u shud interfere with their relationship,he might even know that she cheats on him.Just let her know what he said and advice her to stop what she is doing,that is the furtherst u shud cos it aint your problem,ryt?L8rz!
2006-10-05 08:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by dem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell ur friend to stop being a skank and a *****. for her safty because if her boy friend find out he is going to kill her
2006-10-05 08:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. You should be on your friends side not his.
2006-10-05 07:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋