im pregnant by my boyfriend we love eachother to death hes everything to me everyone keeps telling me hes gonna leave me after i have the baby. this is his first child mine too and me and the baby's all he talks about he buys stuff for me and the baby all the time hes a really great guy but no one understands i dont know what i should do do i keep standing up for our relationship or do i just let them say what they want? its annoying me really bad someone help.
2006-10-05 07:53:07 · 10 answers · asked by precious 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why don't you concentrate on your baby & your relationship
everyone can say what they want after their mouth belong to them & since your ears belong to you, you don't have to listen
Good luck
2006-10-05 08:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly no one can predict whats going to happen. But what is the point is stressing about it? If he is going to leave, then he will leave. Unless you dont want this baby if you are alone, then what difference does it make? You can be a good mom with him and you can be a good mom without him too. Relax, eat healthy and rest your body for the big event. Thats all you can do. It has already been decided if you two are meant to be, no point in fighting anything now, especially when your body doesn't need any more stress. Good Luck!
2006-10-05 15:20:49 · answer #2 · answered by angie_laffin927 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love this guy then f u c k everyone else they do not live your life you do. If people can not respect your decision then maybe it's time you re-evaluate your relationship with them. This is your baby and I hope nothing but the best for you and your boyfriend.
2006-10-05 15:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by princessrie2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let people say what they wont because if you know the two of you are great for each other then why let people say he will leave you.He really sounds like a great guy. I hope everything works out for the two of you..
2006-10-05 15:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends and family all feel the same way about your boyfriend, they are probably right. Take a good look at him and see if there's any truth to what they're saying. If your friends and family love you, then they just want the best for you and they are obviously concerned for some reason.
Good luck!!!
2006-10-05 14:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't allow others to dictate your relationship. He sounds like a really nice guy, and it sounds like he's happy about the baby. Please sit down with him and talk to him about these rumors. It least that way, you will know where he stands and you can go from there. Don't let others walk all over you! Stand up for your relationship, and for your BF!! Hope this helps! Good luck!
2006-10-05 15:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you live people will always have something negative to say about any relationship you are in,,,but dont let them tell you about your relationship..pay the hype no mind and keep living your life....also this could be a form of jealousy, tell them to kiss your *** and keep doing what your doing, if he's treating you right then that's all that matters...good luck and congratulations
2006-10-05 15:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by isydnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 "CONGRATS" u r now a mom. let you friends and family know how u feel and if they can't respect your feelings move on . you now have a person that will need you to take care of them and love them and you have the dadthats love his baby too .( you go girl. )something that you should know is YOUR baby can feel every emotion that you feel happy, sad ,mad. etc. so be careful how YOU feel about life and the people that r around you. you should be fine. take care.
2006-10-05 15:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by mykids4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest grammar lessons.
2006-10-05 15:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ring and marriage.
2006-10-09 10:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋