we love each other,but he's been engaged before we met.and now it takes for him too long to split with her. all i can do is to wait. is there any way i can encourage him to do it sooner ( it's not fun to wait dunno what). he needs to talk to her and i told it to him, but still he hasnt done it yet ( not brave enough) ... well what can i do in order to speed up this?
2006-10-05 07:50:02 · 15 answers · asked by sonya_p007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him how you feel. Tell him you appreciate it is hard for him to do. Give him a dead line. Nothing stupid. And then stick to it. He has to choose. You cant have your cake and eat it... like he is at the moent. Be strong.
2006-10-05 07:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by rob e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve everything you get for sleeping with another womans man! If he actually leaves his fiancee, I would be amazed. I can't believe some people still fall for this old line of b.s! If he does leave, do you think he will be faithful to you? You set yourself up for a big fall. You reap what you sow!
2006-10-05 14:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your boyfriend takes you seriously enough. If he is serious about this new relationship with you, he wouldn't keep you waiting. Besides, he is not being respectful to the other girl either. Is he trying to keep both of you at the same time?
2006-10-05 14:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear sweet girl, if he really loved you, he would not have been able to break up with her quick enough. It sounds like he just wants to have his cake and eat it. Try talking to him, and telling him how it is making YOU feel that he is taking his time. If he doesn't do something about it after that, it's time to move on.
2006-10-05 15:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by hysteria_fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you can just move on with your life and start seeing other guys. It will either light a fire under him, or you'll have so much fun with the guy your spending time with that you'll forget why you were so interested in mr. already-engaged.
2006-10-05 14:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don’t be naive, you have waited long enough. He is not going to break the engagement with his fiancee. Anyway, it is better for you to forget this two-timing guy.
2006-10-05 16:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs motivating. Become a little more elusive and let him wonder what your up to. Or may be find yourself another boyfriend. It will make up his mind one way or another and it's better than being in limbo forever.
2006-10-05 14:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mark T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you accept the delay the more it will go on. You need to give him a deadline and be prepared to walk away if he does not honour it.
2006-10-05 14:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has made a commitment to marry this lady and now he loves you.Are you really sure he he wants you or both of you, tread carefullly or your heart may be broken.
2006-10-05 14:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by ann.inspain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is stringing you along. I would stop waiting around for this guy & move on, you are worth more than that
2006-10-05 14:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by wordykat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋