and why is this. Is it because u believe the person has changed or u just love them to much to let them go. Please give me your opionion on this issue and do it happen a lot and have it happened to u
2006-10-05 07:28:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope, I don't think that's real love you're talking about if you're able to "fall out of love", then "back in love".
If that's the case, then you either have never really fallen out of love in the first place, or you basically were never actually "in love". So many people believe they've gone through this cycle of back and forth "love" because they have a misconception of what love really is, or their expectations of love are simply unrealistic.
Yes, it's happened to me before, too; but I understand better now what love is. Love takes two. It's not about hoping the other person will change for you, or that you need to change yourself. Love is acceptance - not tolerance.
2006-10-05 07:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by ¿What Now? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe everyone has experienced this at one point or another .
I think when we are weak we see this person as a wall to hold us up
As far as loving that person the same way you did at first I don't believe it can happen .
Most ppl put blinders on the "second" time around and pretend it is a once again blissful union but in all reality its not worth it .ppl that give second chances at love or whatever it might be barely see a great reward/payoff!
2006-10-05 14:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by i love my 2 girls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most powerful human lesson you will ever learn!
Love is the most powerful human lesson you will ever learn. It is a purposeful interdependence through which you become so much more than on your own. Once you can understand that love is not something to be found, rather, it is in you to be shared; you can love wholeheartedly without fear. Don’t turn your back on love every time it touches you, because when you give up on love you give up on yourself.
There is nothing you have to be or do to earn love. When it is love, there is very little you can do to destroy it. If you can believe that, you will accept that, You can be loved even if you are not perfect, You can be loved while keeping your course in life, You can be loved without getting lost in love.
2006-10-05 14:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by Achi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-10-05 14:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by eagfan5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes as long as it doesn't happen more than 3 times
2006-10-05 14:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Da King 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it happens. Just look at Liz Burton .. she married, divorced and then remarried Richard Burton not many years later. It happens all the time. Good Luck! :)
2006-10-05 14:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me. I moved out away from my boyfriend of 3 years because I couldn't take his **** anymore. Now I live at my dads and I am still spending the weekends at his house. I don't understand myself.
2006-10-05 14:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by kristi.burkhart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , that happened to me, i fell in love , then
out of love, it was a waste of time, this man
did not know what he wanted, so i had to let
him go. you should do the same.
2006-10-05 14:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by rodriguez m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible! if you are married it does happen! but remember for better or worse! Stick it out ...form experience..it is worth it!
2006-10-05 14:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by Proud MOM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, people do change over time
2006-10-05 14:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋