ladies what should I do now? Please your anwers would be...?

Question

I had my period aug 6 and aug 31st both lasted for six days.
I had sex on the 11, 13, and 18 of September. I was on Ortho tri but I miss a day on the 13.On Sep 28 I started camping every morning till today and no period yet. I took the Walgreen’s "first response pregnancy test" on the 3rd it was "+" I took another the 4th it was alsoa faint "+" and I just took a longs drugs pregnancy test and it shows a really really Faint "+" sign but one the lines is very bright. I don't know what to think. I would set an appointment but then I'm afriaid to cuz my parents might find out and asked y I didn't tell them and if I'm pregnant and they do find out I don't know what would become of me. I'm 19 years old and please I need your adivices ladies. Thanks for your time.

I have no symtoms but cramping every morning for about 5-10 mins

Answer 1

I am so sorry sweetie but you are pregnant no doubt about it. You may want to go ahead and share this with your parents so they can help you and guide you. Good luck and may god bless you and your family.

Answer 2

Okay the reason some tests show up brighter than others is because of the amount each test detects of the Hgc in your blood. Some can detect less and some need more to detect, so that makes the lines fainter of brighter. BUT I was told it is nearly impossible to have a false positive no matter how faint it is. I would think you are pregnant. You should talk to your parents, but if you need a little time yet but still want to confirm the pregnancy, just go to a local planned parenthood. They will do a test for you and answer some questions and it can be completely annoymous (sorry suck at spelling) but you dont have to give your name and they can do it for free. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Oh! Congratulations, Mommi!! I know you don't feel the joy yet, and are flooded with fear, buy you are definetly carrying a baby darling. Tell your parents, but you know you can go to Planned Parenthood first as well. They are there to help you. Please do not consider NOT keeping your baby. You're 19, a woman now. What's going to "become of you" is a Mommi, darling. Don't you worry. God is on your side and so are we. I became a Mom at age 21, not much older than you and it was the most beautiful thing that happened in my very beautiful life. I'm having my 2nd baby next week... 14 years later. I think what you should do is bring your parents in on this. They know you're human love. It's not too late to tell them, you've just recently found out! Be calm and confident and not stressed. Take care and best wishes to you and your family.

Answer 4

Three postive pregnancy tests pretty much confirm that you are indeed pregnant. Cramping is normal- I had it when I got pregnant (I didn't know I was pregnant at first- I thought I was about to get my period until I went to the doc. for a routine check-up and found out I was pregnant.) What parent are you closest with? If it's your mom, tell her. If it's your dad, tell him. You're going to need their support. They'll be upset at first, but they love you, so they'll come around. I thought my parents would kill me, and yes, they were mad @ first. But then, they just tried to help me and make sure I got the health care that I needed. My daughter's almost 2 now, and my parents think she's just the best thing since sliced bread!! Good luck, sweetie. God bless!!

Answer 5

well you can make an appointment with the drs office to bechecked most of them offer a free pregnancy test service where you can just walk in. your medical records are confidential they cant tell your parents anything and besides your an adult now its your descision not theres. when they do if you are explain to them this is your desision not theres and you would appreciate it if they would support you rather than put you down. you know a happy pregnancy is from a happy mommy, stress is not good for the baby. plus they might be disapionted at first but they wil get over it.

Answer 6

Your 19, are you still on your parents insurance? If you are not how will they know? what is said between you and your doctor should be kept confidential. He can not tell your parents.
If you aren't taking the test first thing in the morning then it could be reading positive, but there isn't enough of the hormone to make it bold. Take a test in the morning when you first go to the bathroom, that is when the hormones would be at their highest.
you need to go to the doctors! good luck!

Answer 7

Girl you are pregnant. Any + sign on the test usually means you are. You need to get to the doc, and tell your parents. Just explain that you were scared. I have been in your shoes, at 17, if you need more detailed advice, dont hesitate to instant message or email me. Also, dont take those birth control pills anymore. This may be a stressful time for you, but you dont need to make it more stressful by having a misscarriage. If you dont think you can handle a baby this young, then try adoption. I did it and it was the greatest decision I made in my life. I still see her all the time, its awesome, she is in such good hands. Like I said, dont hesitate to message me if you want to talk!

Answer 8

You could try the E.P.T. pregnancy test. It's the most accurate. Are you afraid to tell your parents because they are not aware that you are sexually active or because you're pretty young? I was only 2 years older than you when I got pregnant. I was terrified to tell my mother and grandmother, who served as a father, that I was pregnant. Once the initial shock was over I had to start preparing for the child inside me. It may not be as bad as you think. You should at least tell your mother. She is the one you'll need the most to help you thru this.

Answer 9

Go see your doctor with your boyfriend to make sure you are pregnant. If you are, your boyfriend will need to start planning to marry you and you'll need to tell your parents about the happy event that's about to happen. Plan on marrying your "fiancee" before your precious child is born so your child is not born out-of-wedlock. I'm sure your parents would be very disappointed to think they are going to have a bastard as a grand child.
By the way, it's a good idea to get a DNA sample from your boyfriend now. Save a sample of his blood, semen, hair, skin, spit/Silvia for the future of your child.

Answer 10

Ok, i know what your going through i went through the same thing, I now have a Very healthy baby boy. heres what you do. Go to the doctors (a clinic if you want), have a test, pending the results (even though they were faint they were still positive) talk to someone. If its your parents then tell them the truth. im sure your mom can understand. your father may not be happy about it at first if you decide to keep the baby believe me they will change thier tune. i am 20. my father wanted to disown me and now he wants me at his house everyday i could get there he loves his grandson. Good luck in whatever you choose and whatever the results are. if you ever need to talkl you can always talk to me...

Answer 11

Well all 3 of the tests say positive so that means your pregnant..
You need to sit down and talk with your parents about it..You are 19 also not a child so they cant tell you what to do...Like I said just talk with them and Im sure it will be okay really...
You need all the support and love you can get...Make that appt and get you and baby checked out
Best of Luck to you sweetie!
:)