im not having sex w/ my girlfriend like we use to, she thinks its because im unattrated to her becuase of her weight, but its not, for instance she says we dont make out....we did more in the beginnig but...i dont know im all confused
2006-10-05 07:09:47 · 20 answers · asked by confused 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
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2006-10-05 07:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by stigys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a symptom... it 11:43pm, you have your left hand on your cock and are anxiously awaiting for your computer to load the latest c u m swappers trailor... you are addicted
you check out porn when you are alone and have other things you should be doing but instead you rub one off because it is just too tempting not too... you are addicted
quit the porn and become one with your girlfriend again if you want to that is... but don't lead her on because that is messed up
porn is great for single people who either cannot or choose not to be in a sexual relationship, or it is great if both partners enjoy watching the sexual acts together or if apart but if you are simply doing it just because or for any other reason such as you are addicted than you aren't being fair to your girlfriend.
you were once very attracted to her because you were unfamiliar with her and she you... now that you are familar with her she is not as exciting anymore and no it is not just her weight.
try this if you want ofcourse... try restraining yourself for a whole week from anykind of sexual activity... including with her.. no porn no stroking it... unless you wake up doing it LOL and then hang out with your girl
you will both be amazed that you are both into each other again and keep it this way.. no more exporing late night porn trailors or skipping through DVD's soley focus all of your sexual energy toward her... if this does not work than you should break up...
2006-10-05 14:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are spending more time with yourself and porn then with your gf that is a problem! If you are attracted to her then show her don't just tell her, If you have some fetishes that you feel like you can only live out while watching porn maybe that is something you need to talk to her about. She could maybe help you with some of that. You need to keep your sex life fresh and alive or your relationship could die. If you love her turn off the porn and start making it with her!
2006-10-05 14:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bonnie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you prefer to watch videos or look at pictures rather than deal with a real person, porn is impacting your life. This is not about sex. It is about your own emotional state. You need to get in to some couple counseling and work on this issue. You will feel much better and so will she.
2006-10-05 14:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-06 01:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't state whether you're watching porn or not. How much porn do you watch? If it encompasses you wanting to watch it more than being with your girlfriend, or even doing other normal activities, then you got a porn addiction.
2006-10-05 14:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Bub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find yourself getting more enjoyment out of watching sex than having it. As far as your girlfriend/sex situation..maybe have her watch some sex videos with you. It can be pretty fun..doing everything that the video does. If she doesn't get anything out of it then..I don't know but then you are satisfyong not only your own passion but hers too! Try it
2006-10-05 14:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Taking a dirty mag to Sunday Service is probably a bad sign
2006-10-05 14:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by Chris B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
porn addicts can't get away from the stuff, they use blackberries or any other means to stay on the net and will have lots of other forms of porn around.
2006-10-05 14:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe your just selfish and like to satisfy your own needs instead of hers. y don't you come out and just say it that it's her weight. then why else would you explain saying that her weight is affecting the relationship? and if it was effacting it that much WHY ARE YOU FAT 2!!! and why haven't you done anyhting to help her???
2006-10-05 14:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋