I have an old boyfriend that always meets up with me every now and then and I haven't heard from him since I moved out of town because he don't know were I moved. The question I have is, is it wrong to look him up when I go to town? What do I do if I do and he has a girlfriend, he never cared he would just show up?
2006-10-05 06:48:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Definately look him up. If he was your boyfriend then you obviously cared about him as a friend also. If he has a new girlfriend i'm sure she wouldn't mind as long as you don't try to be flirty or anything. I try really hard to stay in contact with all of my old pals including boyfriends, just to make sure they're doing ok and are still on this planet. When you contact him though, just be really cordial and ask the simple questions. Go get him girl!
2006-10-05 06:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think it is wrong for you to look him up because alot of b/f's and g/f's are still good friends. If hes like a friends to you look him up when you go to town but if he do have a girlfriend ask him about her and see how she is. See if it would bother her or him if yall continued to talk since yall are still friends. Some girls take offense to and ex-girlfriend calling their boyfriend. If it dont bother her and you are not flirting with him I think things will be fine between the three of you, just dont call everyday like yall are together.
My boyfriend's ex calls him sometime and I answer the phone she ask for him and I give him the phone becasue I trust him and as long as he dont go out of the room like he is trying to hide something Im fine. We have a clear understanding on where things stand and sometimes she call me but we will never go anywhere together and she dont come over to see him.
2006-10-05 14:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ask Ashlynn!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you hope to gain by looking him up? It may not be wrong to look him up, but why would you want to if you've moved away, and moved on and he's and old boyfriend?
2006-10-05 13:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't wrong to look him up, especially if you have a good friendship. If he has a girlfriend, be a lady and back off. Otherwise, you'll only wind up getting hurt or making yourself look foolish and desperate.
2006-10-05 13:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by superfluity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure you should look him up, if hes still a friend then im sure he would enjoy hearing from you, and as far at the girlfriend, if he is dating someone hopefully she isnt jealous and will allow you to be friends but be careful not to interfere with thier relationship.
2006-10-05 14:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by krisbohanon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. just look him up
2006-10-05 13:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by j.tech_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, get over that guy and look up your friends
2006-10-05 13:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-10-05 13:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Molly323 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋