My husband and I moved to Europe so that he could pursue becoming a pro soccer player. That was a major move and I cannot work here bc I dont speak Spanish, Im not legally allowed to work bc of immigration laws here, and he refuses to get a paying job bc it will "keep him from practicing". I am also 4 monthes pregnant and we are running out of money. He just wont accept his responsibilities, we did this for HIM and he wont step up. Im scared and trapped here and I dont know what to do. All advice is very very welcomed. Im so afraid that he will continue to live in a fantasy world and my baby and I will suffer because of his lack of responsibility. How do I get him to step up? (By the way, I supported him for a year on my miserable hourly pay back in the US)
2006-10-05 06:46:10 · 5 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to do what's right for you and your baby...if that means leaving him in Europe and moving back to the States then you have to do that. How are you going to support a baby on nothing, no income at all? It is not possible. He should get a job and pursue his dream in his spare time. Don't let love cloud your intelligence. I'm not saying you should get a divorce, but you have to do what is right for the baby.
Good Luck.
2006-10-05 06:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to cut and run, before you are trapped with no money. Since he is not working and you are preggers. Clean out the bank account and go back home. He is not worth it.
2006-10-05 06:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by impatientone_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move back home and tell him you will move back when he gets his act together
2006-10-05 06:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make your husband find a job.
2006-10-05 06:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help from relatives if you can
2006-10-05 06:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋