I just got married to a mail order bride from Trinidad, need this advice
2006-10-05 06:44:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IT depends on what you and your wife agree on and if you can afford that many children. My husband and I agreed an having 4 children. We will be able to support them and love all of them.
My parents had 5, my husband's parents had 9.
2006-10-05 06:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only in China is their a limit to having no more than 2 kids. I have not heard anywhere else where this is mandatory. U do not state what part of the world U R living in. The ladies from Trinidad are real nice and if you treat them right U won't regret it.
I wish U all the luck in the world.
2006-10-05 13:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Le Baron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ordered a bride in the mail? How did that work out?
2006-10-05 13:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How many can you afford? Remember a child requires several things in its life. You want to breed like a dog and have a litter of 18 or more and let the Government take care of them for you?
2006-10-05 13:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by CenTexan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's something you should discuss with:
a) your wife
b) your banker
Your partner and your finances tend to have a little bit to say about this decision. I think I can understand why you have a mail order bride in the first place.
2006-10-05 13:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kayt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, No,not really. You are a man. You will have to get a vasectamy to stop having children. Trini's have kids like everyone else. Some want a huge family, some small.
2006-10-05 13:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in China, definitely. Otherwise, the only limitation is how many times your soon to be wife lets you get intimate with her after she gets that ring on her finger.
2006-10-05 13:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as many as you all can....but honestly you should have maybe 2-4 children...the first two close togeother,then if you can handle thm...2 more when they are about 3 to 5 yrs. of age...this is just to balance out the love...
2006-10-05 13:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but if she has c sections like I did, doctors usually like to limit it to three c sections. And if she has them natural, I wouldn't have too many. Unless she does a lot of KEGEL exercises. JK
2006-10-05 13:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on how many she wants! mail order huh? Did you get to pick the make and model?
2006-10-05 13:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by jovi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋