I have been in the same relationship since 9th grade , almost 6 years now . But I still think about my ex from 8th grade , I try not to think about him or e mail him but I cant help it . I want to be friends again , I have missed him for so long and I cant figure out how to let go . I have been e mailing him for 6 months now but our converstations just consist of " Hows life " . I feel retarded thinking about someone I dated in 8th grade , I was so young but I did love him .
2006-10-05 06:36:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Fixation on that particular boy is just a symptom of your dissatisfaction with your current partner. Your unconscious mind is trying to tell you to get out of your long-term relationship, and take some time to learn who YOU are in the absence of others.
2006-10-05 06:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of him & move on,time does not wait for anyone...I wish that I could be saying more to (Help You)... Life is a really short lesson for everyone concerned & there is such little time in life left in life to be overly concerned about someone whom is already in a relationship with someone else...Someone else (Deserves) your love more than the person whom is already concerned with someone else...Memmories are a (Thoughfull) thing & (Beautifull) thing to have but,Memmories can at times become too (Cloudy) of Distant Past,with no reall (Future Involvement) for the one Person that you are thinking of...I bet that you will find someone that will help you (Fill The Gap) in your Heart & make new & Exciting Memmories that you can actually share with that (New Someone) in your Life... I do Wish you the best that a Life can offer you but, it's up to you to find someone NEW to help you make New & Exciting Memmories that would (Overshadow the old Memmories... Good Luck To You & Take Good Care !!! rumeoui.
2006-10-05 06:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by rumeoui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is never lost for the reasons we loved someone. People tend to believe it is, but that's only because the negatives we do not love about them, become greater than the positives we do, and thus the "whole" of the relationship feels unloving.
You are therefore still drawn to him for all the things you loved about him. This is normal. Your problem stems from your trying to not make it so, but one of the greatest attributes of love is that once given it cannot be taken back.
Perhaps now, the reasons you broke up back then, are not as important to you, as you once thought they were, or, perhaps you do not remember all the negatives that outweighed the positives. In either case, that love is now allowed to shine through, and love is that which attracts.
2006-10-05 06:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I don't even remember who I liked in 8th grade. Are you married? If not meet with the ex and see how that feels. Sometimes we are in Love with an image of what we remember but once you meet you might find that there is absolutely nothing there. If there is something then you need to reevaluate your current relationship and see what you want from it.
2006-10-05 06:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by sassssy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, the three of you (including your "current" beau) are MATURE enough to look beyond your "past relationships."
My suggestion is to INVESTIGATE what "commonalities" that the three of you have and then arrange a mutual outing with them and thiers. Invite all thier FAMILIES to maybe a PICNIC.
Here, all attendees can meet and discuss whatever pops up. A great way to break the ice! This used to be an ideal outing for families (yes, years ago..... but many areas still observe the importance of "connections.")
OR....... You can be the GO-TO person for arranging this type of outing to your shopping mall! - offer a similar type of outing for the same objective (breaking the ice.)
GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-05 06:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing unusual. Girls can never forget their first love even after they are matured and experienced.They keep craving for him but remain content with hi'sand hello'sdue to constriants of family and society. Your sentiments are appreciated. I wish you all the luck.
2006-10-05 06:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE BEEN WITH SOMEONE SINCE 9TH GRADE
WHAT A BORING LIFE
GET OUT AND DATE.....MEET OTHER PEOPLE
DO YOU WANT TO BE AN OLD LADY WHO HAD
JUST ONE GUY ALL HER LIFE..
CALL THE GUY FROM 8TH GRADE
BUT REMEMBER, HE MAY NOT WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU
SO PREPARED TO BE HURT.....................
2006-10-05 06:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up he would have told you he wants you back by now so stop talking to him before your new boyfriend finds out then what are you going to do
2006-10-05 06:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Desi & Dani's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he in a relashionship? If not ask him for a fun night!
2006-10-05 06:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by jovi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO SEE IF HE WANTS TO GET TOGETHER. HE MIGHT OR MIGHT NOT. THEN YOU CAN MOVE ON AND GET THIS OUT OF YOUR SYSTEM. BE FAIR TO YOUR BOYFRIEND.
2006-10-05 06:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋