Because right now I am having irregular periods and often really tired please give me some type of advice
2006-10-05 06:35:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
fist things first im one year older than you and have a better job than most adults and im still not financially secure enough to have a baby....so make sure you can truelly afford a child b4 you try to get pregnant & finish school. but just bcuz you have irregular periods doesnt mean your pregnant it could just be your mind playing tricks on you bcuz your trying to get pregnant the best thing you can do is to go to the doctors and get an official pregnancy test...good luck and think twice b4 bringing a child into the world
2006-10-05 06:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in such a rush????
there's soooo much time left for you!!
Really truly you don't know how hard it is until you have one....
you won't have a REAL life.....
you're still young....go out and enjoy your life......
Do all the things you want to do in life......and once you can say taht you've done everything you want......then have a baby......
That way you don't have any regrets in life.......
And that child will grow up to be a well rounded individual because you will have so much LIFE experience to teach him or her.......
Please just think this through before you do this....
Having a child is not all fun and games.......
and it's not a toy you can leave in the corner when you don't feel like taking care of them........
And yes don't do it to trap a guy.....cuz it NEVER works....why do you think there are so many single moms out there?
2006-10-05 13:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by Joogie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you offer your child so little. Wouldn't if be more appropriate to offer a baby a two family home where the parents are committed through marriage. Why are you settling for so little for yourself and a baby? Women who love even the thought of a baby would never knowingly offer them so little to start off their life.
What can you offer this child? A married mother and father. Financially and emotional stability? An emotionally stable mother and father? Are you using
A husband’s love, presence and support make all the difference as a woman experiences the transition to motherhood. During those difficult, early postdelivery months, a supportive husband is every wife’s ace in the hole. Studies show he’s her number-one support player during pregnancy, birth and new motherhood. For a woman to whole-heartedly embrace motherhood, she needs to know that her husband is as committed to their baby as she is. His kindness and practical help keep her going during difficult times. Do you have that? Or do you have some boyfriend you don't even know can provide for you or your baby of even wants to stick around?
Sadly not all women have warm, supportive husbands when they have babies. Sometimes a couple is estranged or the mother is unmarried. I read a poignant account of a mother who abandoned her 3-day-old baby in the lobby of a building in New York City. She had placed her daughter in a Warner Brothers shopping bag along with two handwritten pages. The baby was dressed in a T-shirt, diaper and jumpsuit. Here is the mother’s letter:
My sweet angel baby Sarah,
I am so sorry to give you such a bad start in your life. You must never for a moment think I don’t love you. I love you more than I dreamed possible. If I knew for a way for us not to be apart, that’s what I would do. Please know that I never meant to harm you. All I can think about is the things I would like to give you. I don’t think anybody would love you as attenfully (sic) as me. Take care. May the angels watch over you and may God forgive me. I’m already missing you. I can’t stop crying. I don’t know where your Daddy is. (italics mine)
Poor sweet angel, baby Sarah. In having no loving, responsible, onsite father, she lost her mother as well. For without a loving husband, a mother has a rough, demanding course. She can feel quite alone with her baby and overwhelmed by life, whether she’s an unmarried mother
2006-10-05 14:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's your life and your decisions, but I think you are too young to have a child, but thet's just my personal opinion. If you have a fiance or a husband, are financially stable (babys are expensive and demand lots of thing, medical expenses, clothes, diapers, etc) if you are good in all that then do it, don't ask for our opinion on line, it's your life anyway. I do think you should be older, more experienced in life, maybe better prepared. Good luck in whatever you decide.
2006-10-05 13:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to have some more life experience before you take on the huge responsibility of having a child. Children are extremely demanding on your time, patience, finances, etc.
2006-10-05 14:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pregnant thats great ! :) But, if you're not, you should do some serious thinking! Not to sound like a *****, but can you afford a baby? Will you be able to tak care of it! If you can, thats great!
Good luck to you!
Congrats!!
2006-10-05 14:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by MoMmY AlOrA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becoming a mother at 16 when i did was the most difficult thing i've ever done in my life and believe me its not fun whatsoever. now at 23 i wish i had waited till i was older to have a child. be a kid now and wait till you have a kid. its harder than u think!!!
2006-10-05 13:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get pregnant really easy by going to the doctor and getting birth control shots. Try it!!!
2006-10-05 13:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by In Luv w/ 2 B, 1 G + 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y u want to have a baby u to young to have don't stress ur self a the test n c u preg
2006-10-05 14:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're older. You'd better think about why you're doing this...are you trying to trap a guy?
2006-10-05 13:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋