Last year I had a stillbirth :-( but now I am pregnant :-)! I am wanting some bedtime fun but all the doctors say that any poking around the birth canal should be avoided :-(. My hubby and I have improvised over the past few months but it would be good for both of us to enjoy penetration. I can understand not being able to prod around the birth canal, but what about bottom sex ?
2006-10-05 06:20:08 · 27 answers · asked by blurbbox 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i think it would b fine, but i wonder if ur orgasm would cause minor contractions and u might want to avoid that. i understand u may b looking at alternate ideas and those people who are giving u a hard time aren't being very nice.
i'm not trying to b gross but if u havent' done anal before start very slowly so ur not hurt and use lots of lubrication.
congrats on the baby!
2006-10-05 06:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by confused mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya. Congratulations on your pregnancy and sincere sympathies for your previous loss. I ,too, suffered a stillbirth a couple of years ago .. but that was not due to having sex during pregnancy..whichever way.
Surely any type of sex would be ok if gentle enough ?? but I'm not an expert and you should really check with a professional to be sure. The fact is the worrying about doing it or not doing it is more likely to cause you stress .. so I'd check it out first with your doctor or midwife. I'm sure you won't be the first person to have asked them ... and then you and your partner can enjoy it whichever way you want. C'mon others .. where's your sense of adventure ???
2006-10-07 05:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Maria F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do anything of the sort! I think that you really ought to not have any type of sexual penetration! A lot of woman sacrafice this act for te sake of the child, myself, I had a miscarriage and when I got pregnat again, I refused to do anything with my husband for those months, and he understood. Sex is not THAT IMPORTANT and the LIFE you are carrting surpasses the NEED or URGE for the penetration in sex. Besides, most woman are not interested in sex while they are pregnant, are you a Nympho? Anal sex is NASTY!! I would never let anything IN, it is a ONE WAY street there! Sh*t comes out, but nothing go IN! Good luck with whatever you decide! You really should seek a professional opinion as well!
2006-10-05 06:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by fatiima 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see a problem but then I can't see a problem for normal sex. I've had a stillborn, 3 miscarriages between 12 and 20 weeks, two full term healthy babies and at no point was I ever told sex could make me lose a baby. The baby is so incased in the womb and quite high up, so if it was a contributing factor it would be a big health warning. Yeah, have fun, experiment but don't give up normal sex completely.
2006-10-05 06:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by jeeps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh good grief!! Are you totally desperate? The anal canal is right next to the birth canal, so the same pressure would be applied. Leave well alone, if that's what you've been advised. What is more important to you: a healthy baby, or satisfying your lust?
What about oral sex? But don't swallow.
2006-10-05 06:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't risk ANYTHING AT ALL, anal sex CAN be quite intrusive and to be honest not something I would recommend to a lady that has had a still birth, it could upset & inbalance all sorts of hormones....Why not go for oral satisfaction, that should be okay as there is no intrusion & it's very satisfying...good luck with the new baby & I sincerely hope all goes well for you this time.
2006-10-05 06:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I wouldn't take any chance with intercourse of any kind. Your anal passage is "right next door" to your birth canal...do you really want to risk loosing another baby?
2006-10-05 07:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even risk it? You cant resist sex for 9 months to ensure your baby will be born alive. Just wait until your baby is born then have all the sex you want. Your baby is worth it.
2006-10-05 06:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Brianna'sMomma 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that may still cause pressure around the birth canal. or may exert pressure on uterus from different angle.
I'd just try and wait it out with your improvisations....
2006-10-05 06:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by sparky39fire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think it's ok, but you'll have to be very careful, not too rough but gentle...I understand it's hard sometimes, but it's your child's life you are talking about. Better check with your dr, unless it's embarrasing for you. Good luck hun
2006-10-05 06:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋