what or how you react if your hubby tell you that you can't order dessert until you finish your food? or i dont want you to work this or that time.....etc etc...
2006-10-05 06:17:21 · 23 answers · asked by confusegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry but I would remind him that he is your husband, your partner, not your mother, father, or boss. When you want his opinion you will ask for it, until then keep what he is saying to himself. Or you can turn it around on him and do it to him also. Tell him that he can't watch the game on Sunday until the grass is cut, or dinner is finished, or whatever chore you can think of is done. I am pretty sure he wont like it either. If you put up with it, it will just get worse and you will have no one to blame but yourself.
2006-10-05 06:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell him " um have you forgot that I'm your wife not your daughter, I'm not a child I'm pretty sure i can make my own decisions about this stuff ". and it that dint work tell him your going to tell Dr. Phil. They had an episode on not to long ago about I guy sort of like that real bossy and they sent the women to be pampered and her hubby had to stay home and be bossed around by 3 other married women. LOL it was great.
2006-10-05 13:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Dakotah D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S NOT BOSSY SWEETY, HE'S "CONTROLLING". tHIS IS NOT GOOD AT ALL!!
your an adult and should beable to order what u want when u want. Tell old bossy hubby to put a sock in it. BUT then, if he's controlling, that could lead to "violence". So be careful, but do as you please. He's not your boss, he's your mate. It's suppose to be a half half deal.
2006-10-05 13:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the roles were reversed i'd tell you to piss off, your my wife not my mother. (as far as the food goes)
with the work schedule i'd discuss he might have a real reason, such as it conflicts with his schedule and it would limit your time togther or leave leave kids unattended. A controlling person usually starts small and builds and builds until you finnally stop it. so stop it now.
2006-10-05 13:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by brett.brown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a control freak. Try marriage counseling. If he won't go, see a counselor yourself. There is more here than meets the eye. He could just be very insecure and afraid of abandonment, or he could be an abuser. If he is abusing you, please call your local hotline for battered women and leave now.
2006-10-05 13:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Isabella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know Your hubby is right. It is not a good habit to order desert before you finish your entre. If you do things like this and your husband corrects you he is right and you are asking for trouble refusing to adjust.
2006-10-05 13:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by glt025 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all your pretty lame and insecure to even allow this. Your not a victim. You've allowed this situation to occur and you should have seen this before you got married. This is just as much as your fault as his.
He doesn't respect you and maybe never will. You either accept it and endure, and sit down with him and tell him he has to respect you. You've created and allowed a monster. Good luck.
2006-10-05 13:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would look at him and ask him who died and made him god? He is not your boss, he is your husband. You need to put an end to this behavior now, sounds like he is a control freak and could eventually be the type to hit or hurt you.
2006-10-05 13:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is being ridiculous. I would not put up with that and let him know that if it does not end that the relationship might come to an end. If this does not stop it might become worse.
2006-10-05 13:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by suz' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are a adult and u can make your own decisions. order what you want anyway. are u afraid of him? if you r, he should not be your hubby. ask him who he thinks he is
2006-10-05 13:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋