2006-10-05 06:00:06 · 51 answers · asked by Nasralla-Taqi A 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Its not that they are incapable - everyone has the ability to make choices. If you allow me to generalise hugely, it's just that men can separate sex from emotional bonds, and as such do not get held back as much by the consequences of being unfaithful - in other words for a bloke sex is just sex, it doesnt necessarily mean you love your partner any less.
2006-10-05 06:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by wondergecko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We aren't incapable of that. Not all men are alike,any more than
all women. It sounds like you've been having some relationship
problems and are tarring all men with the same brush as a result.
I don't know your situation,but if this is the kind of thing that happens to you all the time maybe you need to take a look at yourself in the mirror. Is there anything about your own behavior
that might be pushing your man away? If so,you can be honest
with yourself and try to change. If not,you may just have to keep
looking-possibly in different places. After all,it may be that you're
attracted to superficial men who are concerned mainly about
themselves rather than more emotionally mature ones. If that's
the case,infidelity would be a given.
2006-10-05 09:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Alion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recently read an article that said about 70 percent of men will be unfaithful in a relationship at one point through out that relationship, science says that men do this because it is programmed into the male species to procreate and find as many women as possible, however my personal opinion is that yes men are programmed to do this but theres also free will. I feel that although they are programmed by nature they have free will not to do so. I also believe that being fidelity is more or less a virtue... They can choose not to be unfaithful if they love the person they are with, I dont honestly think men should use these facts as a lame excuse for their own infidelities because if they love the person they are with than they can fight against their nature and choose to stay faithful because they love the person they are with... Fidelity is a virtue, and although its not instilled in a man he can be faithful. My husband says even if he felt the urge to cheat he would CHOOSE not to do so because he loves me...Men have free will thats the best part of being human. Its kind of like what seperates us from other animals.
2006-10-05 06:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by beautifullybroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you so sure that ALL men are incapable of being faithful in a relationship, how do you define faithful??? and what kind of relationship??/
i feel sad for you if all the men that you go with are unfaithful.
may be you need to work on the relationship or your choices,
i wish you a better choice the next time round.
God bless,
gabe
2006-10-05 06:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by gabegm1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blame it on the god's design...
the male's objective in ANY species is to spread its genes where as for the woman it is to find an ideal partner that would be a good father for her offspring i.e. a strong father so the offspring doesn't die...
Although we have higly evolved societies and social conditioning that frown upon such behaviour you can not deny instinct and laws of nature.
Based on the same reason, women will not sleep with men easily without assessing his ability to care for the offspring. This is why women find well build, rich, powerful and famous people attractive. Its because they have what it takes to bring up a strong offspring.
No matter how hard you try, you social conditioning will not overpower the law of nature and the animal instinct. Simple as that.
2006-10-06 03:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Zed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are but most tend not to have brains or their brains are in their genitals,and thats what they think with.Apparently its all to do with genetics and wanting to spread their seed or something but personally I think that men are just the weaker of the sexes and when temptation is placed in front of them they can't resist whereas women tend to always think of how their actions affect those around them and so generally are less likely to stray.Also some men don't view sex in the same way that some women do ie,sex for a man is just sex,for a woman it can be more about feelings and intimacy rather than just the urge to get your rocks off.
2006-10-05 06:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by rhieanon6108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat becouse we have plenty of testostaron. We are made to procreate and the urge is strong. No the non natural reason we cheat. We don’t treat our wives or girlsfriends the same way we treat the bimbos we picked up for a one nighter. Our wives or girlsfriends stop giving us sex after a while. Can’t have pizza every night of the week. The other girl looks better. What happens in Vagas stays in Vagas.
2006-10-05 08:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by SE_FU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a natural thing for a male of a species to try and spread his genes as far and wide as possible, socially this is classed as unacceptable but it is a basic animal instict for a female to feel broody and want to bread and protect it's young and for the male to try and spread it seed all over the place. There are some minor contradictions to this throughout the natural world but in general that is the case and after all we are just animals.
I am married though and i am faithful. Through conscious thought though, i look (window shop) unconsciously as do most people
2006-10-05 06:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by danCcooke 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's to do with babies! The most important thing for any animal on the planet to do is to make as many babies as possible. A man is 'programmed' to spread his seed as much as he can, yet women are programmed to be maternal. Society has changed that and demanded that humans find life partners. This helps stop the spreading of STD's as well as helps ensure that off spring are brought up well. Unfortunately it is very difficult for people to go against their programming (some people more so then others!)
With contraception it is no longer as important for us to stick to these man made rules, However it has been ingrained into us for thousands of years so it is also difficult to lose than completely!
2006-10-05 22:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by Dunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simply not true. Both men and women are equally capable of infidelity. Reasons for such behaviour are complex. Sometimes it's love - you meet someone else and fall for them; sometimes it's lust - you fancy someone else; usually it's either loneliness or dissatisfaction with an existing relationship. It takes two to tango and any partner who is the victim of infidelity should at least ask themself if perhaps their own behaviour contributed in any way to their partner's infidelity. (I speak from experience here). By the way, if you made such a sweeping generalisation about blacks or Jewish people, you would quite rightly be considered guilty of racism!
2006-10-05 06:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by mikefitzhistorian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋