Well I dont really care for my boyfreinds new sisiter inlaw. I think shes a fake and a secret fluse.Well I never talk to her she gets on my nevers and she like to hang all over my boyfreind and she picks and pokes at him he doesnt like it eithier but he doesnt tell her anything. So one day I called her somenames I told my boyfreind these thing and A few months later he told her and I "suposseably made her cry ""sure" so one day his brother and her came to my house and said some really mean thing and disrespected me in my own house.while my boyfriend was at work.I didnt tell them anything I didnot want to make it worse.So They left after they said what they needed to say.And I t just went in one ear out the other.Now I do not want to go to my boyfriends family this year for the hoildays.But I'll let himtake the baby for a while I guess because I breatfeed so she cant stay for long I dont know what to do any advise. please thank you
2006-10-05 05:46:29 · 10 answers · asked by Desi & Dani's Mommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Completly ignore the b**** and your boyfriends brother. Let your boyfriend know that you will be ignoring them. Practice what you want to tell her and her hubby. How DARE she come into YOUR house with her s#!t. Then the next time that B***** opens her mouth in any way negative towards you or your man. You let her HAVE IT! You are a part of that family too. Dont let her cause you to be distant from them. or uncomfortable.
2006-10-05 05:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the best thing to do is just accept this girl for who she is. It's ok also to accept the fact that you don't like her too. I am sure you love your boyfriend and I am sure that his family is important to him. When the holidays come along go with him to the family gatherings and just avoid conversation with her besides "hi." Of course, her being disrespectful to you is never ok. I would think that your boyfriend should tell his brother that his wife needs a chill pill!! Best of luck to you!
2006-10-05 05:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, name calling just brings you down to their level. So, even though it's hard, try to be the more mature person. Holidays are stressful and it's even worse when there's kids involved, because everyone wants to see the baby. See what your bf wants to do, if he wants you to come, you dont have to stay long. The family probably already knows what a *****she is anyway.
2006-10-05 05:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The family will eventually see the real her, but until then talk to her when you have to other then that the occassional hi and avoiding her.
2006-10-05 05:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nezza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do both. Speak when you see her, and aviod her at all cost otherwise.
Pray that the people in his family can see the real her!
2006-10-05 05:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First advice is--- STOP HAVING CHILDREN WITH YOUR BABIES DADDIES try to have the next one with your husband. Secondly you started the name calling so why you be is complainin bout that there yo.
2006-10-05 05:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend? your baby? Who's calling the kettle black here?
2006-10-05 05:50:58 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me I think like people say "Someone could take but so much". So try to keep your distance if you can,but about your boyfriend what if he wants you to go wat to do then?I think you should go but if something happens try to ignore it or laugh it off.
2006-10-05 05:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Antinitra B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and don't talk to them.
2006-10-05 05:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance...That is best.
2006-10-05 05:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋