sometimes ill not be satisfied when it completes n my husband gets satisfied then what should i do?plz serious answers otherwise dont give answers.thanks
2006-10-05 05:44:51 · 8 answers · asked by shamita 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Shamita, this is a funny ? at least the first part
it will be wonderful if we can all be satisfy
but alas no & thank God we woman don't need to be satify to get pregnant
as for the 2nd part of the ? you do need to talk to him about it
if their is a position that make it easier for you to reach your orgasm than start in that position and before he come change position (just try different way)
Good Luck
2006-10-05 06:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When trying to conceive it is very difficult to be satisfied. Everyone will tell you to just relax and keep it fun. Those are the people who aren't really trying. I mean seriously, how is someone suppose to relax and not think about it when you 'have' to have scheduled sex and in certain positions, worrying about the bbt and the cm and if you actually ovulated. It takes a lot out of a person. Believe me I am going through the same thing and honestly it's as hard on my husband as it is on me(maybe harder) because he knows that he HAS to perform and that can put a lot of pressure on a man. As hard as it is on us we still continue to try because we both want to be parents so badly. I try to involve him in every aspect of ttc so he doesn't feel like I only want him as a baby maker. My husband knows more about feminine issues than most men and some women. lol. Hang in there and just keep communication open. I ummm get satisfied during the weeks that we know I can't get pregnant and the other weeks we do a lot of hugging and cuddling to compensate a little for the loss of excitement. Good Luck to you, hopefully it will happen soon so you can go back to having sex all willy nilly! lol
2006-10-05 06:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by tammybaby67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to be satisfied. I got pregnant with my first before I even learned how to get satisfied myself. I learned that later after I was pregnant. I would suggest that you have your husband practice holding out long enough for you to have a turn. Even if he goes first you should be able to still get there after, it may be harder and take more concentration though. You need to find what works for you.
2006-10-05 06:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by mommyem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you both need to well you know at the same time it helps the sperm move faster because you uterus is contracting I really think that's how i got Pregnant with my daughter we didn't have sex for about 3 weeks and the we made love and I think it was the best ever .Good Luck to you.
2006-10-05 07:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Desi & Dani's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have an orgasm it help's retract the sperm up the uterus to the fallopian tube's. It can be helpfull, but not necassarily reccomended. Good luck!
2006-10-05 05:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by babyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. you do not have to orgasm to become pregnant. the sperm will still reach the egg without your physical satisfaction!! However I'd talk to your hubby about pleasing you more often!! ;)
2006-10-05 05:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not necessary for u, but i've heard it helps with sperm movement
2006-10-05 05:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by facs2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could talk to him instead of asking us. tll him what you asked. maybe he will understand and help...if not,honey use a vibrator!!!
2006-10-05 08:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by scott b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋