advice please
theres a new boy at school and i really like him.some people are horrid to him. im not sure but i think he might leave if people keep being horrid to.
how can i persuade him not to without saying dont go or something like that?
2006-10-05 05:26:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it isnt a horrid school by the way
2006-10-05 05:36:15 · update #1
just make friends with him and make him feel that he is welcome at your school.
2006-10-05 05:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by smiles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is show him that not all peeps in your school are fools that have nothing better to do then be horrid to others my personal opion on peeps like that is that they are insecure and as away of dealing with that they lash out at others be friendly with this boy and let him see that you are not the same as everybody else and i am sure things will work out best of luck to you
2006-10-06 03:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Denver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be hid friends...But dont be the desperate stalking type...just gradually let him know he has friends in that horrid school of yours..then find out why everyone is being horrid to him and try to change whta it is about him they dont like-unless its completely unreasonable or something...you could even make a documentary of it...or not
2006-10-05 12:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Chunkylover53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first have you introduced yourself to him? its nice for him to have friends and maybe he wont leave if he has more firends..and if those people keep being horrid to him just ignore those who do becuase they could bne scared of him just cause he might have something that those people dnt have.
2006-10-05 12:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make anyone do anything they don't want to do. If he wants to leave he will leave. The only thing you can do to encourage him to stay is try to be his friend...if you make him happy then he may want to stay. People don't usually leave a happy place or friendship
2006-10-05 17:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer him your friendship and just be there for him. But as someone here said: Do not try to be a hero!
2006-10-05 12:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you and your friends are nice to him and he feels part of a group, the chances are he won;t feel the need to leave.
2006-10-05 12:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by nlj1520 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be his friend, show the other people who are being nasty that he really is a good guy.
2006-10-05 13:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by sugarpuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become his friend and make your friends be his friend then date him and all the ladies will want him all the fellas will want to be like him.
2006-10-05 12:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by fernx24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become his friend. Eventually your friends will become his friends when they see he's not so bad.
2006-10-05 12:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jim C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just try to be his friend. and try to get people to back off
2006-10-05 12:28:54 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋