Are they shady? Selfish? Flaky? Or just plain don't care that they do this? I continue to keep going back for more because the friendship is important but now I don't want to continue putting myself out there. It happened again last weekend & now she wants to make plans for lunch which I know will be blown off. How can I best handle this?
2006-10-05 05:25:35 · 9 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She isn't much of a 'friend'. Quit calling her and say no when she wants to make plans.
2006-10-05 05:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no exactly how you feel i had a friend that does that to me. its a little different for me because im a kid but what i did is i left her out of my life for a while or do the same thing to her and see how she likes it my firend used to blame everythign on her problems (she had a lot) but i really would just want to say well if i was that important you would remember my best friend and i live literaly a block away i would always come walk over to her house i havent seen her once since early july so i thought we were these amazingly good friends and to her i think we wernt but thats my advice i hoped it helped
2006-10-05 05:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by i'llalwaslovehim<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is no longer a friend - they're an acquaintence and losing ground fast.
If they want to make plans, fine; just don't show and don't call.
If they call you back, apologize for missing the appt. but then blow it off by saying, "well, I guess that evens us out anyways."
If they never call, that means they never showed themselves and are playing you out as a fool.
Find new friends.
2006-10-05 05:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not really a friend, is she? Unless she's got something major and out of the ordinary that's going on in her life right now, I would consider just easing out of the "friendship." Just tell her that you can't make lunch. Then go on your separate ways. Sometimes friendships just end.
2006-10-05 05:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away, its not worth it, it will bother you for only a little while but in the long run you will feel better than constantly being let down.
2006-10-05 05:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be she is very busy, try one more time and if she does the same never call her back and don't received her calls either.
2006-10-05 05:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do the same thing if she has a plan which very important for her.
2006-10-05 05:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by cute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she isn't a friend. Move on.
2006-10-05 05:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by cjuyi99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them
2006-10-05 05:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋