I'm just a shy guy, i never hang out with anyone. just a loner, and i never sense like any girls around my city look at me or are interested. But one time, after highschool graduation i got a letter from a "secret admirer"(i found out later it was a person that was in my class in highschool). It was kind of fun and exciting. So i never knew it but someone was interested. that's interesting. But well it was only 1. So now at age 26, i don't really feel anyone in my block, around my town, ever looks at me or has any interest, but could there be a possibility?
2006-10-05 05:25:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To Debra R. mmmm, no i 'm just a loner, shy person and have no friends.
2006-10-05 05:42:42 · update #1
there is always someone somewhere looking at you and you don't even know it. it could be someone you work with or someone in your complex. someone somewhere finds you interesting. that person it probably just as shy as you are and doesn't have the courage to walk up to you and say "hey, wanna go out sometime?" step up and ask someone out...you might be surprised!
2006-10-05 05:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by A.MARiE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure there is a possibility! Girls are shy too. I had a huge crush on a guy in high school but never told him and said anything to him. We didn't hang in the same crowd so I just assumed he wouldn't be interested. He was a quiet guy and probably never would have guessed that I liked him. I am over my shyness now but not everyone will step up and say something to you. You need to step out and talk to the girls that you are interested in and stop waiting for them to approach you! All they can do is say no but there is a great possibility that they would say yes!
2006-10-05 05:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by charbar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible. People have secret admirers all the time. That's why it's called a "secret" admirer. :)
Will they ever talk to you? Maybe, maybe not. If they are as shy as you are, then maybe never. But if you like a girl, you should start talking to her, because otherwise, another guy will, and will steal your potential girlfriend.
2006-10-05 05:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by PJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. There is always someone who wants you. even after u are married the ladies will still want you. but in your case you gotta go to the market and find one yourself. be extra flirtatious with anyone 5 years younger or 5 years older then you. Then ask for thier number and call them 3 days later and invite them to dinner and a movie. do this with several females and go out with each one that says yes. you choose the one that u like best.
2006-10-05 05:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by fernx24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, of course!! I had a secret admirer in fifth grade, but he never said anything to me. Maybe he was too scared. I also think my friend kind of likes me but he's still too afraid to talk to me. If you like someone you should just go up to them and talk to them. That's the best way to find out if someone likes you or not.
2006-10-05 05:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you look at yourself in the mirror? Are you cute, handsome and cool? Are you nice to girls, have sensible conversations, fun to be around? Then I wouldn't be your secret admirer for long.
I am surely gonna let you know.
2006-10-05 05:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by Debra R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they let you know somehow, then they wouldn't classify as such anymore. Maybe you are very good looking, but unapproachable by nature.... if this is the case, it's possible that you have an admirer or two- maybe even more.
2006-10-05 05:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody could have a secret admirer and not know. And as far as them ever trying to talk to you, you would have to show friendliness or interest in them for them to feel like they have a chance with you to let you know.
However, if you don't know they like you I guess it would be difficult to know who to be friendly to. :-)
2006-10-05 05:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are usually called "Stalkers" and you can have them arrested....
2006-10-05 05:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
yes and maybe
2006-10-05 05:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋