I am with this guy, we been together for 4 years and shares a daughter, but he cheats on me three times now. Do you believe I should leave him.
2006-10-05 05:21:35 · 18 answers · asked by Reshma J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he cheats he doesn't respect you. This will continue in the future.
If you can deal with it then you can stay if you like. Personally, I would go and tell him to take a flying leap.
2006-10-05 05:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should!! Anyone who cheats on you doesn't respect you let alone love you. I can understand why it may be hard to leave him though... you've been together four years and you share a daughter. Don't stay with him just because it's "safe." I'm sure you're a strong, capable woman and nobody should have to be dependent on a jerk like that.
2006-10-05 06:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on you I would not call it love. One time is bad enough but 3, it's ridiculous. You need to realize that you don't deserve to be treated like this. It is a form of emotional abuse! He knows that the 3 times in the past that he has done this to you, you have stayed. What consequences did he pay? None, so what will stop him from doing this again? I am sure that your self-esteem is low after all of this but you need to hold your head high and tell yourself that you don't deserve this and you are better than this. Good luck!!
2006-10-05 05:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't leave him until he cheats on you at least 17 times. 3 times is nothing. lol
Seriously though, leave. Cheating is like an addiction if he got away with it 3 times, why not keep cheating until there are some consequences.
2006-10-05 05:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by ©ubs Fan™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on you he def doesn't know what love is.. And he is def taking advantage of you.. You gotta leave him because he def not changing himself if he cheat on you three times... Leave before there's emotional dilemna .. You will see there much better man out there you just need to find it...
2006-10-05 05:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely...leave him...you deserve better...3 times he cheated and you let him get away with it. He knows he can do whatever he wants and you'll always take him back.Leave him now for you and your daughter.
2006-10-05 05:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by skeptical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to stay with a man who cheates on you. leave him and find yourself someting much better ok
2006-10-05 05:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheats on you it is not love. You should leave him.
2006-10-05 05:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should leave him... you dont want to teach you child that its ok for someone to treat you like that... and they will know when they get older... my boyfriend of two years was keeping in touch with his ex in what he considered an innocent manner but her motives were definitely not innocent... i laid down the law and he chose me... if your guy isnt willing to be with you only then find someone who is
2006-10-05 05:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by abks_cemetery_juggalette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should leave him. I can't believe you even have to ask. You already know the answer to that question.
You should be with someone who respects you.
2006-10-05 05:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋