Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?
2006-10-05 05:08:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When i was growing up I used to beat up the guys i liked. they always ended up liking me. Some people may do it because they are too nervous to ask themselves. Dont hit her back, just playfully hold her until she quits. If you feel the same way for her, it will come out through your actions.
2006-10-05 05:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol @ her hitting you with a book...did/does she hit you hard?
More than likely she is flirting, as long as she does it playfully. It's her way of touching/getting close to you without making it too obvious. Try playing back..just don't get too rough, make sure you know your own strength.
2006-10-05 12:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Independent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like flirting to me. I used to do it. Because you've been friends for so long, she thinks that hitting you is a way of disguising how she really feels. Messing around back willl just give her a message that you like her...so do wot u feel
2006-10-05 12:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lil L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably just paling around but if it bothers you - tell her
best wishes!
2006-10-05 12:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋