2006-10-05 04:57:00 · 12 answers · asked by living this life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be patient , take it slow, don't rush into anything . Give it time at least 15 minutes !
2006-10-05 05:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally a subjective thing. For some, they wait until the divorce is actually final. For me.......I have filed, and I have decided that it IS over. I don't need a judge or court representative or court stamp to tell me so. I said it, and that's what it is. The legal aspect of it is just a formality.
All of that to say, I am dating already. What I learned from being unhappy for so long, is that, right now, I need to see about me, and if it makes me happy.......then I am all for it.
Everyone has an opinion about everything, but more than anything else......you see about YOU. If it makes you happy, it feels good, it is healthy and uplifting.......go for it. And don't worry about people and what they think or say. Just take care of yourself and don't let yourself go back down the same road and make the same mistakes.
Good luck.
2006-10-05 05:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, I been in the process for now two full years going on year three. I would like to date but being in limbo due to the court and lawyers make it hard to do so. The best thing you can do is "like you again" and then try dating when you feel ready to do so. Don't date if you are just trying to fill a void or haven't come to terms with your divorce. Good luck
2006-10-05 05:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong to want to find someone that you can share a closeness with, but if you just got divorced, then you should probably take it slow and just try to go out and have a good time with you friends. I am divorced too, but I have been divorced for 2 yrs and I tryed to date right after the divorce and so did she, but neither one worked out. Definetly take your time. Good luck hon, hope you find whatever your heart is looking for.
2006-10-05 05:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by johnradams81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been through it myself. Start dating when you feel good about yourself again. In my experience most people go through a time of low self esteem after a divorce. Go out, make new friend, read self help books etc gool luck. No you are not wrong to want another guy, it's called being normal.
2006-10-05 05:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by dbharrold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, Ms. Honey do you! You are divorced, and free to live your life as you see fit. As long as you protect yourself ( in everyway), and respect your children ( if there are any involved) you should do what pleases your heart.....and of course God.
2006-10-05 05:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shoooot... as soon as one person moves out... Its free for all! Its up to the individual... whenever you feel like you are ready, then its time. Good luck
2006-10-05 04:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Timing is different for everyone. You may need to take some time for yourself though.
2006-10-05 18:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by jessica h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too, i feel lonely and want to connect with someone, but i almost feel guilty about it.
2006-10-05 04:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no time line. When you feel your ready, your ready. Good luck
2006-10-05 05:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋