That if you would expect or appreciate your partner to do something sexually to you/for you.. that you should be willing to do the same? i.e. If someone would really like to perform backdoor.. they should be open to the same? Or swallowing.. shouldn't they be open to the taste?
2006-10-05 04:47:17 · 20 answers · asked by SassySista 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Among numerous things, these are just two of the things men expect women to do but if the shoe was on the other foot they would never do it. Doesn't it make you think, Why in the hell am I doing it ??. I was thinking last night, since I see so many questions on here about men watching porn on the net, imagine if the man came home from work and had to deal with his wife looking at naked guys on line for 2 hrs a day. Do you think men would think that was ok as they think them doing it is ok ? I think not. And how about their wife going to strip club with the girls after work for a couple of drinks everyday before she comes home ? I think not. We as women put up with way too much.
2006-10-05 04:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I always held this philosphy..all too many men here want to know how to get the wife, girlfriend, mistress, etc to knuckle under to anal sex. Women on the other hand balk for the most part and wonder if they should do so to make him happy.
I think you should put on a strap-on and let him have a little taste. After all...what's good for the goose is good for the gander too.
You may find that particular request from hubby dropped like a hot potato at that suggestion.
2006-10-05 11:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree completely, it definitely should be equal, but I won't push someone into doing something they're not comfortable doing. In that case, it's just no longer fun. I happen to love going down on my husband, but he's not so keen on returning the favor. Not fair? Definitely. But I don't push it. If he's not into it, he's not into it. Everybody's different and I refuse to make him do something he obviously doesn't like, for whatever reason. IOW, you also have to take the other person's feeling into account too.
2006-10-05 12:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-10-05 11:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that's what fair is fair. Particularly with the backdoor issue. I told my husband that if something goes up my behind, then something goes up his.
2006-10-05 11:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate and EXPECTING are two different things. You should be doing things because YOU want to...not because you are EXPECTING something in return.
But YES, I would think both should/would be open to the same!
:)
2006-10-05 11:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Boodie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Works for me, we're open for anything in the bedrooom and have done some things I didn't ever dream of doing :-)
2006-10-05 12:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by ummmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could not be more right.........Let me know if you figure out a way to get him to see this!
2006-10-05 11:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person has their preference. You can't make someone do something they don't want to do.
2006-10-05 11:51:21 · answer #9 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds fair
2006-10-05 11:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋