There is this guy who I am going to Homecoming with. As it is now we are VERY close friends, but I want to be more then friends. He has a girlfriend, but he's told me he wants me more then her. Every time we talk he always tells me he loves me, and when I say it back he replies with a, "It means more coming from you then her (his girlfriend). When you say it I just start shaking it makes me feel so good." What should I do?
2006-10-05 04:39:41 · 20 answers · asked by Catty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He also said that his girlfreind is cheating on him and he is ready to break up with her but every time he tries to tell her she hangs up on him
2006-10-05 04:44:03 · update #1
dont do anything...i know you have genuine feelings for him but it is very obvious he is up to no good! he has a gf and is taking you to homecoming? i know you two are "VERY close friends"....but what you need to realize is if he is telling you that he loves you more than his gf and you make him shake and yada yada yada.......he is gonna do the same damn thing to you if you are foolish enough to become his gf!!! he has no integrity whatsoever....just be friends with him and call it a day
2006-10-05 04:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and stay friends with him, go to your homecoming also; but just ask him flat out, if he is telling you that he loves you, why does he still have this other girl as a girlfriend? It's not fair to you OR to her.........if you don't have truth is a relationship, it won't go far!! I hope for your sake he's not a player!! Guard your heart and think with your head, I know it's hard, but you've got it in you to do it....
2006-10-05 11:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Pattycake2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to homecoming with this guy unless he dumps the girlfriend. He sounds like a hard core jerk. Remember some guy that goes around flirting with other girls and cheating on his girlfriend will freaking cheat on you too. Please move on!!!
2006-10-05 11:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow he has got you rapped. He knows just what to say to get to you hart which he thinks may lead to your paints (the inside of your paints). He is lying. If he really felt this way then why hasn't he broke up with his girlfriend and started something with you? He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
And Don't give me that BS "he tried breaking up with her but she hangs up the phone". That's crap. So your saying he never sees her face to face? What kind of relationship is that?
2006-10-05 11:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ole boy's just looking to get laid and his girlfriend ain't putting out and he's trying to butter you up because he knows that you really like him and he feels that you'll give up that booty just because. DON'T FALL for that ****. Talk to the girlfriend and see what kind of crap he's been tell he about you.
2006-10-05 15:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by Little Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect his girlfriend. Don't let him cheat on her with you. You do not want that role. If he feels that way, please ask him to break up with his girlfriend so you two can explore your realtionship. But a realtionship built on lies and mistrust, isn't a good way to start off, and decreases your chance of staying together. So, have him break up with her.
2006-10-05 11:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he tells his girlfriend he loves her too. It sounds like you will be his next score. If he likes you more than her, why is she still his girlfriend?. Unless you want a broken heart, you should move on.
2006-10-05 11:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to him. Ask him to tell you the only truth. Ask him who he wants his girlfriend or you. If he says you then you dont have to worry about a thing coz every little thing is gonna be alright!
2006-10-05 11:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck Norris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off... ive been cheated on.. its not fair to the girlfriend you need to back off so she wont be hurt.. if he really wants to be with you then why is he with her and not you.. men want what they cant have.. tell him that he needs to make up his mind about who he wants to be with and if its you then he needs to leave her and if its her then he needs to stop talking to you like this.. cuz if he is so willing to talk to you like this what will keep him from doing it to you??? once a cheater always a cheater
2006-10-05 11:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by doto7640 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango. If he feels the same way, then great. If not, move on. There will be others. Give subtle hints to him to get the "ball rollin".
2006-10-05 11:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by icyhott4urmind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋