He still looks at me with the love in his eyes and tells me he misses me. I just can't make sense of it.
2006-10-05 04:38:26 · 18 answers · asked by Liz. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am sorry but at the moment he does not want to be with you.
He is trying to spare your feelings and his guilt by saying nice things. But when it comes down to it actions speak louder than words.
He is not being with you and unfortunately you can't make him.
Now concentrate on yourself, spend a night listening to the saddest music you have and eating chocolate, then the next day hang out with your friends doing girlie stuff and have a good night out.
Then get some new hobbies, do new stuff and tell your boyfriend to give you some space to get over him without mixed messages and no ex sex.
2006-10-05 04:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is what did u do to make him feel that way? Somebody did something, or maybe he is stringing u along while he is having some fun with someone else and wants u to be there waiting when he is ready for u. I don't know the whole story so I can't tell u how to get him back, so I guess I can't make sense of it either. Good Luck
2006-10-05 11:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a reason as to why he don't want to be with you anymore. I am pretty sure that he does love you and miss you, but you may wanna have a sit down and get down to the nitty gritty as to what's really going on. Don't settle for just "I don't wanna be with you no more". He has to give you a reason just like you would have to give him one if the tables were turned. Hope everything works out well!
2006-10-05 11:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by trecypooh03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not in love with you and feels bad. You can't get someone back that doesn't want to be with you. Maybe you should distance yourself from him, or else it's going to be really really hard for you.
2006-10-05 11:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a lot of space. If he comes crawling back to you and you want him back too, then go for it. He's gotta see what he'll be missing!
2006-10-05 11:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by thealysiad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt know what he wants...but in case he doesnt find something better....of course he'll always have you as the back burner....don't let him play games with you like that...he just wants to hold on to you just in case things dont work out...unless you want to be second best...i would tell him to go about his business and that i'm in the process of getting with somebody....bet he wont like them apples!!!
2006-10-05 11:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him at his word. He doesn't want to be with you. Take some time off, spend time with family and girlfriends, read some books and magazines, then move on.
2006-10-05 11:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone set them free, if they come back they are yours if they dont they never were!
2006-10-05 13:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems he jus wants2b friends n nothing more,respect that n move on.
2006-10-05 11:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer him 100% unrestricted / uninhibited / responsive / enthusiastic sex.....Satisfy all his fantasies....No man can resist this offer...
2006-10-05 11:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋