What do you thinkk? Do you have a solution.
2006-10-05 04:38:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
always. My old solution used to be to drink myself senseless. However, you only meet horrible people down that route. An effective way I have found is to look at all the people and select who you think looks the friendliest. Go up to them, tell them your problem and ask if you can keep company with them for a few minutes until you can find your feet. If they can't, do they know anyone who wouldn't mind. Most people are decent when approached like this I have found. Well it's always worked for me anyway! Just make sure you don't interrupt anyone who is obviously unavailable for some reason! Another thing to do is look around and see if there is anyone who looks as lonely as you. Maybe you would be doing them a favour if you went and introduced yourself! Good luck. When you start talking to someone, make sure you ask them about themselves! That always gets people talking!
2006-10-05 04:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by yvonne c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a very good question and I believe the answer lies with the calibre of the company you keep and whether or not the people around you are more interested in themselves or you. I like to surround myself with people who are "aware" I'm present and value my opinions on issues, large or small. Communication is the key to a lot of problems today and it's a shame many more people are NOT "aware" of it, eh?
2006-10-05 05:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Des 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only when I'm surrounded by people. Solution is to help others.
2006-10-05 04:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah all the time. I could be on a bus or train packed full of people and feel like the lonliest person in the world. I have to be around my friends and family. ^^
2006-10-05 04:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Ensee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I think you feel lonely because you do not feel included. You have to talk to people, interact. It is the only solution.
2006-10-05 04:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can say that I have felt this way before... a lot, but I'm sorry to say that I can't think of a solution. I think it's just something we'll have to deal with.
2006-10-05 04:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Alyssa Dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel MORE lonely when I was with people and I think it was because when I was with people it made me truly realise how unable I was to connect with them.
I did lots of things to improve my confidence like exercise, travelling, affirmations etc and eventually clawed my way out of my shyness.
2006-10-05 04:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like this alot especailly when i'm going through family stuff and you feel like nobody is there for you and it doesnt help when your single. the only thing that makes me better is spending the time with just me and my son instead or a very close friend of mine. i dont like big groups of people anymore.
2006-10-05 04:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, because I was surrounded by people who I didnt feel comfortable with. Solution....... surround myself with people who I feel comfortable with. good luck, take care
2006-10-05 04:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have been lonely when there is so many people around you....but what i do is i just start taqlking to some one but make sure they are not freaks(child mulesters).....but if that dosen't work then go find a friend and talk to them....
2006-10-05 04:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by steer_showen_chik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋