I need to look "perfect" all the time. I care so much about what I wear, I could spend hours in front of the mirror trying on different outfits. I spend a considerable amount of money buying new clothes every month, my closet is about to explode. It's like an obsession. I can't just wear running shoes and t-shirt, no matter what the ocassion is... I always gotta look my best. Sometimes I get tired of this, what can I do to stop paying soooo much attention to how I look?
2006-10-05 04:31:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Maybe you're trying to make up for where you are lacking in another area. Try to concentrate more on your inner qualities. We all can improve personality wise, so stop worrying so much about looks and worry about what people REALLY notice.....your personality. Because you could look great, but if you have nothing to talk about, or if you come off conceited, or have some other personality flaw, then people won't like you regardless.
2006-10-05 04:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to be exactly like you. I wouldn't even wear a sweatshirt out in public. I spent like 2 hours getting ready. start small, and pick up some attractive casual clothes. If nothing else works, get married and have kids, works every time!
2006-10-05 04:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by catwoman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out why its so important to you. Do you judge people on their looks alone? Is that what worries you? Try to develop and value other parts of your SELF - your mind, your character, your friends and your family. They are much more than just a superficial image - you are too.
Looks can be important, but we all need to look beyond just that. We are individual people - and have value because of that. Try to become truly comfortable with who you are - not just what you look like - it will help you decide that your "image" isn't everything.
Best of luck.
2006-10-05 04:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by tigglys 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is good that you care what you look like. don't change it. on the days you get tired of spending so much time in the mirror, get a cute ball cap throw on just a little mascara (to bring out your eyes) and go on. that also looks great!
2006-10-05 04:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by sherry p 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
spoil brat why not donate those clothe s to the poor so god can bless you more!! go see a consolur you like to shop and waste ur cash too much ,i get that you must be younge!!!
2006-10-05 04:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋