It seems we always argue about who is right or wrong. 70% of time it ends up that I was right. But he would deny it and play not-remember-it. I was so frustrated that I couldn't get the acknowledgment. More and more I found out I would do the things in his opposite way to start the argument, like out of my control. e.g. I don't set the alarm if I just go out for 10 minutes, don't lock the car if it is in the garage and so on.
Is it important to prove the absolute rightness in a relationship?
2006-10-05 04:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by colmountn 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ask the judge along with who gets what
2006-10-05 04:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by yubuggin? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have read yout 2 part question. I can honestly say that there is too little information for anyone on here to give you sound advice. I know that there is always 2-sides to a story and no doubt a lot that we are not hearing regarding this matter. There fore I can not judge the situation.
It does sound like you want to give up, more than you want to stay together. That is a shame that you want to throw away 5 years. I suggest a marraige counselor if you think you want to keep the relationship.
I would also suggest taking a vacation for at least 3 days together, somewhere a long ways from the house and the day to day business. Do something fun together that may help you find the man you fell in love with long ago.
2006-10-05 05:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong, what you go through is normal and thausands of other people out there experience same thing, let me tell you first that what you experience shows there love, your problem now is that you have not found the good way to communicate. In every relationship, one person is wiser and more informative, yes and it/s the persons job to carry the other along and you don't expect him/her to always accept s/he is wrong, nobody wants to be told he is not smart, what you do is keep making Good sense to him, even though he argues with you, when you turn your back he would pinch hi,self and say you were right after all. And don't always tell him you are right while he is wrong always follow his argument up with tenderness and love, and very soon he would let you lead in almost everything.....good luck
2006-10-05 05:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Evar-ceako Onyeanusi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 03:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by mccracken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a waist of energy.
Why is it so important to compete? I have a good relationship for 15 years, and one thing we have learned is how good it is to say sometimes if you are wrong. You should come more and more together in a good relationship, and constantly trying to prove you're right doesn't add anything good. Learn to listen to each other, that works much better. See where you are wrong. Learn from it. Grow more together instead of apart.
2006-10-05 05:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Bloed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you put emphasis on "being right" all the time or the other person does, you can expect to be in this situation for the duration of your relationship.
Sometimes I KNOW I am right, but the arguement is not worth it - so I stay silent if it's a trivial thing. It isn't worth being frustrated.
2006-10-05 04:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by rottymom02 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your getting caught up with the small stuff. Believe it or not, my ex-husband told me that I was not "allowed" to do a number 2 in one of the toilets at our house. Instead of arguing (how can you argue with that) I just give it up. You have to choose your battles. But... There is nothing wrong with feeling that you right all of the time. Just be happy with a silent giggle to yourself that your right. You don't need to rub it in his face.
2006-10-05 05:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I are competitive; we have that problem, too.
For us, we solve it by really hashing it out. (I have to say, this method favors me--I was trained in debate, and I love to talk.)
Or we go by who wants what more.
Or....when both of our perspectives seem like the same size and nobody's budging, we go by who....um...takes the checkered flag first. (Like thumb-wrestling, only more fun!)
You are being very passive-aggressive. That is also something I used to struggle with. Therapy helps, and so does just talking to the other person and negotiating openly.
2006-10-05 05:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just go with the flow it hurts a man when the woman is right so just try to ignore things and i think he will like it!!!
good luck and hugzzz
2006-10-05 04:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by *********** 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like 2 control freaks to me....and someone is going to lose....
2006-10-05 04:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol, i love your questions, that is so funny, that's just normal life, i have the same problem with Will he thinks he always right and everyone knows Im the one that is always right, as long as your getting good sex don't sweat the little stuff
2006-10-05 04:34:44 · answer #11 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋