my Previous BF has been telling people that I owe her money for using her cell phone. Which is a total lie! I make plenty of money and used her cell on a late saturday evening to call my mom because my battery was dead in mine...ONE time ever! I told her to show me the bill and I would give her the money "if she would prove it", well she never did and is now gossiping.I want to rip her face off. What suggestions do you all have.
2006-10-05 04:23:43 · 15 answers · asked by loyal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm always suspicious of people who come running to me to tell me what so and so is saying. Tell your friends that you don't want to know what your ex-BF is saying and if she has something to discuss, she know s how to get a hold of you. If they keep running to you with the latest peice of gossip, give NO reaction or reply and change the subject immediately. This demonstrates maturity on your part. Chances are she will soon stop gossiping when she knows she's not getting the reaction she wants!
2006-10-05 04:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RIP HER FACE OFF.... TEAR OUT HER SPINE AND STRANGLE HER WITH IT!!!!
Ok, beyond that, there isn't much that you can do, if she is a gossip, and is willing to throw away a friendship over some money, then she is immature, and a fool. And at some point she will realize that her back biting ways will never serve her in life.
I would say throw 20 bucks at her and say somthing like... "here I think this might be enough to buy you some class but then again... maybe not" do this in front of the people she is gossiping to, so then you have in front of people paid... somthing...
That would be the appropriate response in my view, you have definately paid her for whatever 1900 call your mom call she is claiming you made on her precious cell phone, and you have humiliated her infront of her audience, and maybe she will then grow up.
But i wouldn't count on it. Good luck and I hope this helps.
2006-10-05 04:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Teclis98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was u I will go ask her mom where is the last bill she pay and were it was at. Also I wont not b friends with her anymore, and just ignore all she wants is attention so everybody can believe. So just ignore her an dmove on like nothin happened
2006-10-05 04:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by chicagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you disown her as a friend. Shes definately NOT a friend , or she wouldnt be doing this to you. If she wont show you proof, then shes a liar. Forget about her, and stay away from her.
I wouldnt give her a second thought.
2006-10-05 04:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just like to cause drama because their lives are so boring . Misery loves company. I wouldnt hang out with her anymore and wouldnt talk to her at all. Who needs drama over stupid crap.
2006-10-05 04:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to pay her anyway if it was my phone and my friend wanted to use it they could because she would be my mate and she would do the same for me what's a couple of pounds anyway she is suppose to be your friend, just make sure you don't back down or give in!
2006-10-05 04:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by wonderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out how much she is charged per minute, think back to how long you were on the phone, get your calculator, send that ho a check, when she cashes the check that will proof of payment...
2006-10-05 04:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just ignore her. She's obviously not your best friend anymore, so it shouldn't bother you. Your only hurting yourself by getting worked up over it. Don't be immature like her.
2006-10-05 04:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is not your friend if she is acting like that...and to answer the question.
if you want her to still be your friend pay her what you think the amount should be. but since she is acting like that i wouldn't give her a dime and write her off...
good luck
2006-10-05 04:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by turner32542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id laugh at them.Do not hit someone,,they may want to start trouble so you will go to jail.Avoid them or tell tell them to get a life.lol.
2006-10-05 04:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋