2006-10-05 04:20:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
like if you are married your husband or wife cheats onyou or if you are single your gf or bf do the same
2006-10-05 04:21:49 · update #1
A cheater is a cheater, married or unmarried. Marriage and a long term committed relationship are pretty much the same.The paramount difference I have observed is that people are more likely to stay in a loveless unhappy marriage due to the social legal and financial consequences of divorce.In a committed relationship ,if things are not working out, and cannot be resolved a couple is more likely to go their separate ways . Simply put I believe some married couples stay together because they have a "Gun to their head". In a committed relationship there is no"Gun".
2006-10-05 04:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear marriage and being in a pre-marital relationship is not the same. For one marriage is Honorable by God. Marriage is pleasing to our Lord, he wants man to have a ''helpmate'' aka wife. What he doesn't want is for you to give yourself to someone other that your husband/wife.
A wife/husband is a life partner, not just someone to be tied to. You are to share all your joys/sorrows w/this mate. Sex is a very big part of marriage, it's a gift God gave to MARRIED folk to share there love for one another. When a spouse cheats it's very different in marriage, both mates need to sit down and figure out why the one spouse betrayed the marriage ( and own up to there part in the other spouses reason, no reason is good, but you have to own up to the role you played in the other spouses reason for cheating) what need of there's wasn't being meet. Truth be told, alot of people don't cheat due to lack of sex, it's due to the way there spouse treats them. Lack of respect,admiration, and praise from a wife to her husband, Lack of attention, affection, and financial security from a husband to his wife.
People have human needs that must,must, must be met in order to keep harmony w/in a marriage. When a persons needs are neglected the devil finds that as his opportunity to destroy the marriage with sexual cheating, bad spending/debt, etc.
2006-10-05 04:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are completely different. Marriage is a TRUE commitment. You have to sign papers to get married saying that you will be committed. Having a b/f and g/f just means your doing a trial run before marriage. They are two totally diff. things.
2006-10-05 04:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by CMA 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no I dont agree and I think this is a very pessimistic view of life.
in marriage we can fully commit and give our trust if we are unwilling to do that we shouldnt be getting married
2006-10-05 04:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is basically the same thing nowadays because no one cares about staying together. I agree with you.
2006-10-05 04:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes i agree. you are having sex with the same person. the only difference is when you are married you have to have sex with your partner.
2006-10-05 04:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by bthompsonusa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bottom line , its the same thing !
2006-10-05 04:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋