ok we men do it ,,think about other women we meet,, and wonder what they would be like in bed,,and some men go for it,, do you???? do you and would you go for it,,just as one time deal if you knew that was all it would be????
2006-10-05 04:19:07 · 17 answers · asked by Rooster 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think about it, yes. As people, we are always changing. Meeting new people, having new hobby interests. So, often I'll meet someone who is really interested in one of my hobbies or who is really into the same career as me, and wonder what it would be like to be with him. But, I would never sleep with those people or cheat in any way, inlcuding emotionally. I made a committment that I won't break. It is ok to consider those things sometimes, as long as you never act on them, in my opinion.
2006-10-05 04:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not.I think that people have forgotten how sacred a sexual experience can be. Without Love and a relationship there is no sexual experience. How can you feel so close to someone that you hardly know?? Even if you just had to just do it for the sake of it you would be left feeling empty. It would be wonderful for that short period but that feeling would die down after a while. And you'll always be looking for that next thrill, and you'd be left never ever feeling truly happy. As tough and as tedious as a marriage might get its never worth messing up for that few seconds. Even if you think you'll never be caught the truth always comes back to haunt you, you will never escape it. People who have affairs don't just have flings or affairs there's always something deeper that they're trying to satisfy my suggestion is to always do a soul search before messing the rest of your life up.
For most women its about feeling Loved and being close to someone.
2006-10-05 11:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm happy in bed with my husband, I would never think about other good looking men, in my opinion even fantasizing is cheating. But if I had unpleasant time in bed with my husband , I would think but never go for them.
2006-10-05 11:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lili 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I wouldn't go for it. With marriage comes a promise of being faithful, that's in the wedding ceremony. If I wasn't ready to keep that promise, I wouldn't have gotten married. And if there ever comes a time when I can no longer keep my promises, then it's time for the marriage to end.
2006-10-05 11:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I fantasize about how another guy might be in bed..but of course my husband is deployed and at this point Id fantasize about anything...lol I am sexually deprived for this Country!!! I would never act on it though..I could never cheat on him.
2006-10-05 11:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even think about that...and I would never cheat on my husband...just a one time deal is just as bad as multiple times...
2006-10-05 11:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we would, watch all the Ugly/fat/religious/plain/repressed answers from the zealots..NO I AM LOYAL UNTO DEATH pplleeeaaaaasseeeee give me a break I am good looking smart and the answer is YES EVERY GODDAMN TIME HONEY XXX
2006-10-05 11:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never. I could never imagine how I would feel if my husband did it, so I never would. If I'd ever be soo bored, then I'd just get a divorce.
2006-10-05 11:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by laura_vg21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.I would never cheat.I might think someone is attractive but that's as far as I would let it go.I would try to distance myself from them if I thought that.
2006-10-05 11:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by katzgto67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you? And if so, then I guess its ok for your lady to do the same, right?
2006-10-05 11:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋