hi, im 24, male from malaysia..im a physically disabled guy...im learning music in my home thru a home tuition(music) teacher who is a 22 year old gal. she came daily to my home to teach me. my parents were not in my home at that time as they have gone to their office.
im learning well from her and she is also teaching well. but im curious to kiss that girl...may be i dont want to have sex wit that girl, but i wud like kiss her and touch her boobs...
but i feel inferiority complex and anxious to ask her anything abt kissing or touching her because im a disabled guy and i have not settled in a career yet. so i feel complex n nervousness.
she has a boyfriend i think. she is jovial but from a orthodex family i think.
pls tell me how can i seduce her to kiss and touch her....if i ask her abt my wish, will she scold or complain to my parents?
pls help me
2006-10-05 03:59:43 · 6 answers · asked by adeve 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, you might want to consider the options. What if your advances are not wanted or accepted? She may not want it and she may stop tutoring if you persist or she gets the idea that your infatuation with her is too intense. You might lose her entirely then.
As for the inferiority, yep, that is realistic in the sense that if she has a boyfriend he is likely not disabled, which is to say there is no additional limitations placed on HER life.
If you are living with your parents, you have much to lose if you've guessed wrong. The parental complications could become disasterous if you don't approach this with the greatest delicacy, as in carefulness. Your nervousness is your head telling you that while the data for the determination is not in, it doesn't look promising and the risks are high.
Take it easy. At a light moment (which may evaporate in a flash), ask her something like, "What are the chances of a girl like you going for a guy like me?" Then too, there was something like that in the Dumb and Dumber movie and when John Carey's idiot character heard that wonderful little vixen say, "About one in a million", Cary's face screwed around from dejected disappointment to elation (as only he could do) and merrily announced, "Then there's a chance!" Get ready to defend yourself to your parents, "I don't get to see many girls, sorry." But good luck, if there's really a chance.
2006-10-05 05:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In answer to the last part it's quite likely or to her employer. Just let things develop naturally or not develope. Just maybe try to socialize some. Possible you could ask her to go to a concert or recital with you.
Being diabled doesn't mean your don't deserve to be loved.
Just because there are some things you can't do there are still lots of things you can do.
Maybe just use your own judgement. ask her out like after a music lesson ask her out. She can either say Yes or No.
Either way you can maintain a friendship or hopefully more.
Best of luck to you!
2006-10-05 04:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Grev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I have already replied you on this. However, I would repeat that since you comprehend that "she has a boyfriend i think", it is better to keep hands off her. If you like her and love her, keep it within yourself only for above reason. On top of it, she may be performing her paid duty to teach you music. Be content that you have found her skill and herself pleasing. Do not spoil this much of the natural 'gift' she is disseminating, which might altogether stop if she feels offended by your new desire or gestures. Have a nice music learning session with teacher you like!
2006-10-05 04:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Hafiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 23:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by banowski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what i do with my men a pint of vodka and some ecstasy, sorry to here about your disability though
2006-10-05 04:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do they have rophynol in Malaysia?
2006-10-05 04:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by cdrfish15 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋