If you're significant other tells you "I gave up my pride to be with you"
2006-10-05 03:47:46 · 12 answers · asked by xxginaleexx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-05 03:48:12 · update #1
Is that enought of a reason to break up with him?!?!
2006-10-05 03:53:43 · update #2
Like a piece of crap. That's when I'd say well you can have your pride back cause this cat is outta here.
2006-10-05 03:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am so very sorry. I can't imagine what you are feeling right now. Put dry the tears and get yourself some answers!
Demand to know exactly what he meant by that. You have every right to hear his reasoning.
Pride be damned...that is a relationship breaker, if I have ever heard of one. Do you think that you could ever forgive him? Or would that always be in the back of your mind. That he thinks he married beneath him, sweetie-please think carefully about this. Don't let his ugly mean words make you bad. I am praying he just said it to hurt you, and that he doesn't truly mean it. For me, he would have to do a lot of apologizing and butt kissing. That's horrible, and you are going to have to erase it from your mind if you decide to stay in the relationship.
Can you do that? If you can't then, tell him to take his pride and go. Honey, there is someone out there that would never ever say such a thing to you. He would move heaven and earth for you, and he would be proud that you love him. Please dry the tears, and get some answers if you are willing to work on this....if not dry the tears and call the girls, I think you need a girl's night out, and go have some fun, and forget this guy and his pride!
God bless us all.............
2006-10-05 11:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an insult. You will have to decide if it's reason enough to break up with him. I wouldn't look at him the same anymore and would just end up being miserable everytime I look at him. I would eventually break up with him. Or just tell him how his comment effected you. That was a very insensitive thing for him to say :-( I don't think I could be with someone like that.
2006-10-05 10:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men dont put sentences together as well as most women can...sometimes they get their pride in the way they want u to feel...owing to them cos they do truly care for u... and if u knew how much he gave up...cos of u then u shuld be soooooo very happy cos he loves u.... in a round about stupid rude crap way hes telling u...please feel ur obligated cos i am...however since ur feeling reeeeeeeeeeeeely angry right now cos u think he got with u cos he felt embarassed...thern forget it..hes not really saying this if he shows u love and attention in public
2006-10-05 11:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the best thing he could have ever done! Good for him...finally some wisdom. Unfortunately that person the other end of the stick had to be you...
2006-10-05 10:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by sexycandlelightguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess before I jumped to conclusions I'd ask him what he meant. Possibly he meant something totally different than what was said.
2006-10-05 10:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by bellelayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would really hurt. Talk it out with your significant other, maybe he/she did not mean that literally.
2006-10-05 10:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would hurt me to a depth beyond repair.
2006-10-05 13:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without you giving more details about this, its hard to tell if its a good or bad thing.
2006-10-05 10:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah break up with him he sounds like he doesnt respect u at all., there are better men out there trust me....
2006-10-05 11:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by b utter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋