This person wont answer my calls or reply to my texts, its been a month since we spoke, have known them for 3 years. We had a relationship but the other person ended it saying it was all a lie and they dont care about me. I know for a fact that the statement made is false.
Now they wont talk to me, what should I do? I love the person but I dont like being messed around. What would you do, and what interpretation would you take from their silence?
Can the silence mean they actually do hate me, that they are undecided, or that they are just nasty.
2006-10-05 03:15:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anon-y-mouse 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do want to move on and forget about the person but it's SO hard, I can't stop thinking about them.
In order to move on though, I need a reason as to what went wrong, and why they wasted 3 years of their life talking to me and messing my head up. Need answers first. What can I do to get them?
2006-10-05 03:21:39 · update #1
Relationship ended a month ago, had a great night out then after we left the club the person just ended it there and then, saying they dont care about me. It is a lie, the things this person has said and done in the past reflect that fact.
I don't want to cause a scene by going to their house cuz a) don't know if they'll be in & b) might not answer door & c) don't want the whole street to hear any arguing because they're all dodgy...
2006-10-05 03:29:57 · update #2
i must first say this person is either as u said nasty playing mind games after 3 years u havent heard a thing in the last month my advice is to not call and to c what happens if you still havent heard say in a month from now then there just tryeing to be spitefull so then if i was you your know and i hope you can move on from this if what i say happens thets hope they will get in touch with you then least your know where you stand i wish you all the best x.
2006-10-05 03:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by dgriffin_deang 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if this person is in a new relationship and has a jealous partner- which is why you are being avoided?
I would advise you to forget about this person, as hard as it may seem.I can assure you that this friendship/relationship is not worth bothering about. Friendships arent meant to hurt or worry people so I think this person has issues.
Perhaps if you ignore this person you might end up being contacted in the end? By then you might not even care?!
Do yourself a favour and move on! Some people are just not worth it!
2006-10-05 03:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Doris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did this relationship end? The person is not messing around with you - he/she is ignoring you because they are not interested in talking to you, and especially not about why the relationship ended. The person probably does not hate you, and is not being nasty. My interpretation? Most likely they want to be left alone to continue their life.
2006-10-05 03:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rod S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you keep playing the pronoun game, ("this person", them, they, thier) I'm thinking this friend is female. If I'm wrong, I apologize, but here ya go. If it's a girl, then she's playing games with you and that's not cool, just let her dramaqueen *** go. I know it's hard to let go of a friend, but she shouldn't have done this to you and that shows what kind of a friend she really is, especially saying that she doesn't care about you. If it's a guy, he's a d*ck and he's very, very not worth your time. He probably doesn't hate you, but you didn't mean very much to him if he's jerking you around. Sorry, I know that's harsh, but you should find someone better hun.
2006-10-05 03:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by mooo83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe their phone is lost or broke. Texting has become an impersonal way of communication. Would you ask someone to marry you on a text or phone? Tell them you are pregnant? Forget the text or phone. Talk to them in person. Then you won't be sitting there wondering what silence means!!
2006-10-05 03:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by exel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but it sounds like they really don't want anything more to do with you. You have to bite the bullet and move on.
Go out with your friends, do some serious drinking/dancing, flirt with anyone (either sex!) and have a good time doing it. Get this person out of your system and find someone to have a stronger relationship with.
2006-10-05 03:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have to except that this person does not want anymore contact with you , for whatever reason that may be .
He obviously cannot face you . The best advice is to walk away , and let it go , this is not the type of person you need in your life .he has the problem not you .
Get out meet new people , whole big world , with fun guys who will treat you properly
2006-10-05 03:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that probably means that they are no longer interested in you and that they don't have the decency to tell you face to face. Its basically the chicken way out. People need to learn sometimes the truth might hurt someone but its better to know the truth in then end than to make assumptions.
2006-10-05 03:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that could mean that the person tired of the relationship and want to see new people. Or when you call him or send him a message that means he is probably with his other friend. And don't want to be bother or can't answer cause he with his other girlfriend.
2006-10-05 03:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by Alayshia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but it seems that the other person doesn't want you in their life. I think it's time for you to just walk away and leave that person alone. Maybe, somewhere down the road, things might ease up but I wouldn't count on it. It's time for you to let go and move on.
2006-10-05 03:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by Red1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋