me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half.ever since we moved from minnesota to oklahoma we fight everyday.about really stupid stuff.like he will constantly tell me that i want all these other guys and he will tell me that he wants all these different girls.we are constantly accusing eachother of the dumbest crap.but now he all of a sudden is starting to freak out on me for everything.like for no reason,i asked him last night if he wanted me to put his food in the fridge for him and he exploded and called me all these horrible names and told me to **** off.does this mean that he just plain lod dont wan to be with me anymore?he tells me everyday that im stupid and im a ***** and he says everything i do drives him crazy,in a bad way.so reallt,is he just having personal problems or does he really not want to be with me anymore.this mayt sound like a really stupid question,but im confused.oh ya and whenever he says he loves me it just sounds fake.like he has to say it
2006-10-05 03:14:58 · 8 answers · asked by jenny p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get the hell out of oklahoma! that's the problem.
2006-10-05 03:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something is defineately bothering him and I doubt that it is you. Try and talk to him when he is in a good mood and just tell him that he seems a little tense lately and see if he will come out and tell you what it is. Moving to a new location is very stressfull on a relationship. If things are not going exactly as planned in Oklahoma he may feel some quilt if it was his idea for the two of you to move. Let him know you stand behind him and that you will support him no matter what happens. It does sound like he has some anger issues and may need to seek counseling. Good luck and stay strong.
2006-10-05 03:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think it should matter if he loves you or not. You don't need to be treated that way no matter what. Do yourself a favor and get out now before it turns physical.
2006-10-05 03:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by angelre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he wants you to leave and does not want to be the one to break up. Love does not talk to you that way.
2006-10-05 03:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants out and is too much of a coward to say it! Get rid of him and quick.
2006-10-05 03:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by lou_cifer7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, Id end the relationship. It doesnt sound like he loves you. If he did, he wouldnt be treating you like he is.
2006-10-05 03:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is he aint worth none of your time leave him and find somebody who is gonna treat you better someone that deserves you...
2006-10-05 03:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is abusive, get out now and move on.
2006-10-05 03:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋