Why are women fooled by this old trick and continue to be fooled by it?

Question

I have some friends of mine who are baby daddies. These guys are hard core players and low down dogs who go to the malls with their sons or daughters and get alot of attention from women who have this "feeling" that a man who treats his "daughter" or "son" right will treat "her" right, he would make a great husband. Geez, do these women get fooled all the time. Do you REALLY think that you and this man's child are on the same level of importance? Why do women fall for this old trick. You know what, it doesn't even take a child to catch them, even guys walking around with a puppy can get numbers all because of women who "feel" that if he treats his puppy nice he would treat her nice too. Some guys I know who are baby daddies are really DEAD BEAT dads, but you should see how they pull chicks at the malls and other places. Works like a charm! Thought women would have caught onto that old trick but naaa, not really

Have these women also thought about "child support" and the baggage of dealing with "after-tax" deductions from his check. Sorry, but his kid(s) WILL always take priority. Me, I dont have any kids but even my wife thinks these kinda men are attractive. Geeez.

Answer 1

i never understood it myself but they think that they are responsible men. and i always thought that if they saw them with a kid the girl would realize that ain't nothing responsible about them or else they wouldn't have a kid. sometimes some of us a stupid. if they thought about it a little bit they would realize that if he has to spend so much time with his kid then he won't have much time for her and there definitely won't be any dollars cause he has to take care of his kid. maybe one day women will catch on to the game until then its 1 point for the guys.

Answer 2

I totally agree with you.I see it all the time,almost everywhere I go.
Even my 18 year old daughter sees it and knows exactly what those guys are up to. I rememeber when she was 15 years old and we took her to a carnival. We saw this young good-looking "player" walking around with this adorable puppy.The girls just flocked to him,and my daughter told me that the only reason he brought the puppy was to attract attention from the ladies.He didn't really even need the puppy,because he could have gotten the attention based solely on his looks,but I guess he felt he needed that little extra "insurance."Works every time.If my daughter could see it at the age of 15,why is it that older girls can't see it for what it is also? They are being set up for pain and heartbreak,but i guess that's what it will take to teach them a lesson. The sad thing is that some women fall for this same trick more than once.Some never learn.

Answer 3

You're right. Friday night's is the guys night out at my house. My 7 year old son and I go to a local book store while my wife stays home and pampers herself. I honestly thought the attention I got from women there was because my kid was a charming little son of a gun, but it turns out to be something else all together.

Thanks for shedding some light on this for me. I was either proud of my son or flattered or both, but from what you're saying these women are just looking for someone to take care of them. No wonder conversations usually end rather quickly after I mention my wife.

Answer 4

Not all women fall for this trick, but some do your right and I can't really tell you why. I try to get to know a guy before I start dating them just because I've dated a lot of playas and don't wanna do that again. They are assholes. Women should stop fallin for that trick because all that does is get them pregnant and there kids end up with a daddy that don't give a **** about them and thats not fair for the kids.

Answer 5

you have a point to some extent, but i beg to argue with you on certain issues regarding what you wrote.
1: how do you know that the WOMEN in these men's lives didn't leave first and that they were not the bad guy? not all men are dogs.
2: when you get to a certain age group, it is more likely that you encounter people who are divorced with kids. that is life
a jerk is a jerk is a jerk-kids or no kids. relationships are a coin-toss no matter which way you flip the coin.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

NOT ME. I'm way smarter than that. It's a turn off to me to see a guy with a baby and not the mom. What kind of relationship is that? DRAMA DRAMA.....players.....It's just stupid. Trust me, not all women fall for that. Good insight though. You're right.

Answer 8

Ooooh!!!! Say that again!!! I'm so tired of seeing that. What are women thinking? I want to start my own family...his first be my first. If I see a man with a child, I'm walking in the OTHER direction!!

Answer 9

I DO NT GIVE MUCH ATTENTION TO A MAN WITH A CHILD , IF HE APPROACH ME . I WOULD BE INSULT BY HIS LACK OF RESPECT. AND I WOULD NT THINK OF COMPARING MY SELF TO A DOG. SO ALL WOMEN AREN'T FOOLED
SOME WOMEN WALK ON BYE NEVER KNOWING HOW SILLY OTHERS CAN BE
THANKS FOR THE LAUGH

Answer 10

If I see a man with a child I think they are already taken. Leave him alone.