My first baby is due in a month and the mommy to be and i are split up. she is very dependent on her mother and cant stand to be away from her. this is what caused the split in the first place. i love her and this little girl to death and just cant seem to get through to her. what if anything can i do to mend our relationship. i cant stand the thought of my little girl coming into the world with a broken family.
2006-10-05 02:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My partner and I went through the same thing. I was very dependant on my mother and my boyfriend felt outed. Thankfully he put up with it and remained patient and together we grew as a family and I wanted the same life for our daughter as he did. It took a while (2years) but now we have bought our own home, are getting married and have had a second child. I think if you love her it's a sacrifice that you need to make. You need to understand that pregnancy although exciting is terrifying and who better to understand this than your mum. I think if you love each other once the bub is born, that want to be an in dependant family will grow stronger, but you must remember that her mother will always be a part of her life, and is the grandmother of your bub!
2006-10-05 02:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by lazy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing you need to be concerned about is the baby, and so does your baby mama. It isn't about you and her anymore, it's going to be alllll about the baby. Even if you guys aren't going to be as a couple, that shouldn't stop you from being the best father you can be and supporting the mother and the baby. And honey, lemme tell you... you're going to be in for a serious ride. Be prepared to get no sleep, fixing bottles and a lot of dirty diapers. In other words, your baby's needs is going to overwhelm the both of you for the first month or two. So try to mend your relationship by being there for your baby mama and your child. She's going to need your help, believe me. And remember, pregnancy is a hard thing to go through and it's no walk in the park. I am on and off with my baby's father, but when it comes to our daughter, we are on point. She is going through a lot physically and emotionally, so just help her out so you can make it easier for ALL THREE of you. It's bad enough there's a lot of men that ain't steppin up to the plate, so don't be one of them. Take care of your seed, and when you see your baby for the first time, you might just fall back in love with her all over again.... Hope that helped.
2006-10-05 09:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww that is so sad just be there for the baby and maybe she will see that you really love her and if not you will find someone wo see you love them but don't ever forget about your baby be a great father
2006-10-05 09:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by 22inWV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋