I've been always sensitive and now Im pregnant and its worst I cry for everything, my husband gets mad over stupid things like me asking him to buy me something when he comes from work he says im home the whole day and could buy it myself, I understant that but he talks down to me and makes me feel really bad and then just forget about it and expects me to forget his mean words, I dont talk about it and stay mad, it bothers me that he doesnt apologize and just tries to talk to me like everything is fine when its not.
2006-10-05 02:19:32 · 14 answers · asked by ariannasthephan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOUR PREGNANT YOU ARE GOING TO BE MORE SENSITIVE THAN USUAL...ITS CALLED HORMONES...MAYBE YOU SHOULD SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO EVERYTHING. THIS PREGNANCY MAY BE AFFECTING HIM TOO.
2006-10-05 02:24:05 · answer #1 · answered by PRETTYGIRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get your emotions under control. Talk openly to your husband and let him know that now is an x-tra sensitive time for the both of you, but especially you because you are going through the hormonal changes. Let him know that you need x-tra TLC, and let him know that you will pay more attention to some of his needs. Having a baby is a big change for the entire family, and you have to be able to deal with the changes. Let him know where you are coming from, and listen to his views so you know where he is coming from also. Remember, parenting is a two way street.
2006-10-05 09:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has to realize that your body is a firestorm of hormones. The ups and downs now will be worse than your most forgettable PMS times. Next time you go to the doctor, try to get your hubby to go along and have the doc explain this to him.
Congratulations and good Luck!
2006-10-05 09:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not wrong.
He needs to understand that women need to be petted & pampered even more when they're pregnant.
It's because they're already emotional enough before pregnancy... but during pregnancy, the hormones are all out of whack, causing them to be overwhelmed emotionally... & physically.
It can be very stressful & confusing for a woman to go thru it & they need some relief... so, it's "hubby-to- the-rescue" that they need.
They don't just need the hubby to understand... they also need the hubby to care enough to be there for them.
2006-10-05 09:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to sit down with him and give a lesson on how to treat a woman and explain that it is not the fact that you can't do it yourself but that it makes you feel loved when he is the one that brings you things. Its an attention thing. Dont stay mad. You need to communicate with him.
2006-10-05 09:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though the two of you need to counsel with a professional (not family or friends). It appears that you're young and now with a baby on it's way it looks like a long hard road ahead for you. Lots of luck to you.
2006-10-05 09:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not wrong. Your husband should be more sensative to your feelings. You are carring his child to. You two should seek some type of counseling. He needs to learn how to communicate to you in a positive way.
2006-10-05 09:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you r not wrong,,this is happen when u expecting and thats normal,its normal to change your moods in every moment specially with your loved ones,dont bother about that and pls when you have free time with your hubby try talk with him when he feels free n without tension tell him thats whts you going thrugh,,tell him that you carrying his babay and when you r pregnant your hormones are changing coz of child in u,so thats hormones changing your mind n thoughts too,
pls dont worry about your mood changes it will go away when you deliver the baby,,and pls take care of you and baby,always think about baby,,ok?
good luck!
2006-10-05 09:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by mashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man have a hard time understandign what we go through! they think we are just being over sensitive. you need to bring it to his attention and he needs to work w/u. he's not the one that's experiencing all of htis changes, oour body changes dramastically, our feet get big, our hormones are everywhere. He needs to understand that
2006-10-05 09:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you're hormonal now and he needs to understand that, but you need to understand that he's a man and it takes longer for them to become sensitive to pregnancy. the two of you need to communicate better because the built up stress and anger that you're holding isn't good for the baby.
2006-10-05 09:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋