for instance iam 16 and iam going out with a 27 year old do you think that is bad
2006-10-05 02:17:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lool sweetie i have been trough a relationship similar to yours and well everyone is going to tell u that your a little girl and that you have no clue what you are doing . well i know because they said it to me . i was 15 at the time with a 21 year old i was truly in love and so was he. unfortunetly we got separated by death but we did have things in commom and those were the best three years of my life, sex was not sex it was love . everyone thinks we are to young to love at that age but i can truly say that its not true maybe some people find their lover at about the same age and so dont but i would tell you no pregnancies and well just be carefull u see he is probably a friend of the family or a stranger i dont know but just follow your heart and be happy for as long as you can but i do say this one problem i had in my past relatioship was that i couldnt go out very often because i was to young so do what your heart tells you . if you need to talk e-mail me ok . i promise to help u out
sincerely;
lauralee joann gutierrez
2006-10-05 02:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by lrl_gutierrez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most states 17 and under are still classified children.So you and this 27 year old could get into trouble,he could be charged with a crime and be labled a sex offender if your not carefull.
Now as to the jest of your question,age is a state of mind.If two people are compatable age makes no difference.I am 11 years older than my wife and we have been married 23 years.
2006-10-05 02:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by blakree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a problem in that u r not mature enough to be with a man. U r still a child in so many words. He can be perverted and u will never know. What do a man want with a child? To control her and she wouldn't know any better. U should find out as much as u can about this individual. That just seems odd to me. If u were an adult it is different but u r still considered a child to him.
Let him know he can go to jail because u r to young for him to date especially have sex with.
2006-10-05 02:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by monie42003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appparent;ly people will never learn- just for -- a piece. if he gets caught he will be doing a long time here, very long time for what 5 minutes of pleasure and if you become pregant?? and are you sneaking around hopping out the old bedrom window at 3 in the moring?? and were are your parents in this?? yes its bad in todays society, more than ever. if he gets tired of you or, finds something else he just dumps you and hits the highways, or if he gets scaredd, hes using you big timer as a toy for a cheap piece thatrs itt you mean nothing other than that. get out of this have himm arrested fast, you have already ruined your life.
2006-10-05 02:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is a bit young to be in a serious relationship (physically or emotionally), if you were a bit older I wouldn't see it as a problem. But you're really still a child, and this is an adult man. I think you need to seriously evaluate the merits of this relationship.
2006-10-05 02:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by jenieatworld 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you reach 20 he will go looking for another 16 year old.
2006-10-05 02:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If caught, he can be charged with statutory rape and be labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life. You should not be with a man that old for the sake of compatibility alone. He needs to be prepared for jail time if he is caught (and they usually are).
2006-10-05 04:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you turn 18 it shouldnt matter age really is just a matter of mind,
2006-10-05 02:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can not have anything in common other than sex.
2006-10-05 02:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋