I've never heard of such a thing, but he says its a big turn on. What's up with that? Guys?
2006-10-05 02:13:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't let him pressure you into doing anything that makes you uncomfortable! If YOU want to try it, there's little harm done. It'll torment you with itching while it's growing back, but it will grow back. But it has to be YOUR decision, not something he intimidates you into doing. I think it's kind of sick myself, but I'm not you.
I don't think it makes him a pedophile, but he may have been watching too much porn, which would make me pretty uneasy, too.
It's your body, your decision.
2006-10-05 08:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s totally normal my dear. It has nothing to do with what you mentioned. I know personally I have my wife do the same thing simply because I like it at times. Especially during the oral part of intimate times. So dont get offended, it is truly a sexy thing to some of us, and if that is a positive thing for him and you think he is worthy of being pleased in such a way then don`t give it a second thought. Start shaving and use corn starch powder or baby powder for the firsty few days afterwards to make you feel comfortable and not itch.
Good luck.
Jim
2006-10-05 09:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
For centuries women didn't shave due to the lack of technology that we have now. Electrolysis, hair removal kits, razors. Having it completely bald is a little too child like. That is why many women op for shaving the hair down to a strip or in some sexy shape like a heart,bolt etc...
The skin becomes smooth and yes men quite enjoy not having a beard in their face when they want to go downtown. It's nice to have the "street" clean.
Being BUSHY anymore isn't as attractive as it use to be to most men.
Just try it. If you really don't like the results and how your husband reacts then you never have to do it again and you don't have to tell any of your family and friends. It is between the two of you. Too often women are unwilling to do even the simplest things for their man and wonder why they are fascinated by other women.
If you don't please him someone is always willing to do so.
2006-10-05 09:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a lot of guys like it, who knows why. my advice is to be sure this is something you really want to do, because if you do it once he'll expect it to be shaved all the time. believe me. it is VERY uncomfortable when it starts to grow back, and shaving by the vaginal area could result in some very painful injuries (trust me). You could also experience yeast infections, because your clothing rubbing up against your clitoris will cause the vagina to become wet during the day (by just walking for instance) and the excess wetness can cause the infections. Sorry to be graphic but you really and truly need to consider these things before doing it!! :)
2006-10-05 09:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by iittghy? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think hes a pedophile. Maybe he wants to try something different with you instead of all the pubic hair going in his throat. just shave and make your man happy.
2006-10-05 09:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hes not a peophile, dont worry.
I cant believe you havent heard of it b4,
I shave, i just prefer it that way, not totally, just leave a small amount of hair from the pubic bone, nice and neat.
My man loves it, he also has shaved me and that was an awesome experience, it drove him crazy.
2006-10-05 09:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by jordancassandra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel uncomfortable then do not do it. I do not think just because he wants you to do that ,that he is a pedophile. He thinks it is much cleaner. Get out of the old fashion ways and have fun.
2006-10-05 09:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most american women shave under their arms, do they not? Shaving or trimming pubic hair is not a lot different. Try it ans see if you like it. It always grows back. I shave my face every day because I don't like an itchy beard.
2006-10-05 12:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think it has anything to do with that him being a pedophile...In our culture public hair is considered impure so when we shave it off its better not just for us but for the guy too...trust me he could ask for worse.
2006-10-05 09:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by laguna_beach 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what goes on between your hubby is a private matter..and he is right..a well maintained unit is nice on the eyes and easier on the pallet..it is so much cleaner and lets face it"no pun intended" pubic hair holds odor,even if it is slight..but allot of men kike heading into the bush and some like to clear it..sit back and relax,enjoy your husband,after all isn't this a harmless wish? it's not like your gonna go to your neighbor look at what my husband did!this is between the two of you..good luck !
2006-10-05 09:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋