i'm askin this 'cause I'm very depressed nowdays........due to somethig.....
2006-10-05 01:42:22 · 21 answers · asked by au4u45 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because lifes Like that
2006-10-05 01:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How boring life would be without problems to solve then. Problems rather test your discipline, or endurance or resistance to bad or unfavorable things that come your way. Those problems are useful even. You are able to determine, anticipate or mitigate such a problem once it occurs again.
You're depressed... you probably have more than one problem but you're rather confused about what to do. Try facing them one at a time. Make the best solution possible and in as much as you can imagine. Com'on... don't you want to have that same good feeling you've had when you overcome a problem, or best, when you fix a problem the way you wanted it?
^__^
2006-10-05 02:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been where you are and came to the conclusion that you will experience problems all through your life but what to do with them? Try to see them as challenges and a learning experience rather than the doom and gloom calling them problems can cause. Take each day as it comes and battle each day as if it were your last because you are alive. Best of luck and I hope the good times start rolling in for you you can help yourself a lot but also dont be afraid to ask others for help.
2006-10-05 01:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is simple "Life" and life is what you make of it.
All stages of life have diffrent problems that come up to bite you in the bum it is how you deal with those problems that count.
What ever it is you are depressed with you need to talk about it with someone and not dwell or think about it as it makes it worse.
Something has made you depressed and i am sorry about that as depression is not a nice thing to happen to anyone.
You need to think are you a swimmer or a sinker otherwords are you going to let what ever it is drag you down until you drown or are you going to rise above it, learn to swim and be out there in front? Up to you we all have problems my friend and life just is not fair I know but rise above it by talking your problem through with someone.
2006-10-05 02:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without wishing to sound maudlin' I have had to overcome many obstacles through my 50 years, such as death of parent when young, attacked by gang, married to an alcoholic, divorced and left to raise two young children, and so on. The one thing that has held me up through all these is my self respect and now I believe that for all that I have experienced I am much better, more rounded human being. Good luck for the future my friend.
2006-10-05 03:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sue S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each change in the cycle of life brings a new set of circumstances - some of which we can deal with easily, and some of them not so easily.
But a problem free life would never give you the personal strenghts and skills to develop your human potential, so even they have a purpose.
Remember, character is built from adversity, not from a lack of challenge.
Good luck in sorting out your issues!
2006-10-05 01:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There will always be problems and issues in your life, you can't avoid it. They may range from major personal loss to minor annoyances. The key to beating depression is to learn to accept what you can't change and to try to change what you can.
If you need a good example look at the Amish people and their reactions to an enormous tragedy - they even offered support and concern to the perpertrators family for their loss!
2006-10-05 02:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Wirebird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos life would be very boring if it ran smoothly and you are given things to overcome, which make you stronger.
i know how you feel, things are rough for me at the moment too. im trying to look to the future, and see the big picture. that way i dont get too bogged down with all the crap in my head.
try to think of anything good in your life and focus on that, hopefully the thing that is depressing you will be temporary and you ll soon be feeling better.
hang in there, you are not alone x
2006-10-05 01:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think your havin a crap day!
My jobs boring and crap paid but overloaded with work, and involves a 80 mile round trip a day on the delightful M6.
It currently takes me 1hr 30mins to get home
My mom went into hospital yesterday and theyve kept her in and its not looking great she'll be out tonight
My gymnastics coaching part time job has just decided the £400 back pay im owed they're not gonna pay
Money worries are stressing me out
Im trying to decorate the house and have no time to get anywhere
The job interview I went for on Monday I know I havent got.
Ha, moan over.
2006-10-05 01:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by give up art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was gona ask the same thing!!!
im well in debt, ruined a relationship, have no fixed abode and was made redundant 2 weeks ago.
and all that was last month!!!
when things get really bad sometimes they cant get worse and things have to brighten up.
i do have a little kid and i find trying to make him happy always makes me smile, even when i am feeling down.
so chin up their are lots more like you and i am hoping you will be able to sort your troubles and laugh at them soon.
2006-10-05 02:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by al l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋