2006-10-05 01:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by lance 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
I personally would have the baby, However I can't judge someone else's decision. I think forcing a 12yr old to have a baby is a little ridiculous. Yes they played the game, but they have no idea what having a baby is really all about. Same circumstances for incest or rape. I don't think you should force a woman to have a baby under those circumstances either. I'm undecided when it comes to older women that should know better, however, I'm not sure forcing any woman to have a baby they really don't want is ever the solution. Yes there's adoption, but I think a lot of people would have a hard time with that, because of social or family pressure to keep it, and then wind up resenting the child and neglecting or abusing it. Or what if the woman is a heavy drug user, and won't quit just because she's having a kid? Then if she has the baby, it will more than likely lead a life with severe disabilities. That's a touchy issue. Like I said, I could never do it, but I'm also a reasonably stable person, willing to take on the responsibility of a child. I can't judge because someone else is not. They are the ones that will have to face their maker, not me.
However, a woman should not abort just because her partner said to. It is her decision, not his. She is the one that will have to deal with the physical and emotinal consequenses.
2006-10-05 01:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely consider abortion.
While I don't agree with a lot of the women having abortions when they're six months along, I don't think it wrong to abort while in the first trimester. I also think it's easier on all involved to have the abortion rather than bring an unwanted child in to the world and subject it to physical and or mental harm or possibly death at the hands of supposed loving parents.
And before everyone starts screaming, yes, adoption is an option, but so many times people are forced to 'stand up' and take 'responsibility' for their act, that they're made to feel guilty if they even think about adoption.
And who are we to say that adoption is any better? Who of us have gone from foster home to foster home, caught up in the system because no one wants to adopt us? And what about the abuse in said homes? I've seen several stories of fostered kids dying in the care of foster families.
2006-10-05 08:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only no BUT HELL NO.if U get some one pg than face up and be a real man.There is no way I would ever abort a child.because the child didn't ask to be conceived,it is a human being not some thing to throw away.Even if you don't want the child ,have it than give it up for adoption,there is some one out there that can't have a baby and would give any thing to have a one.i speak from experience.i couldn't carry a baby to full term,my daughter weighed only 1lb15 oz when she was born,and we didn't know if she was going to live or not.SO PLEASE IF U ARE PG THAN GIVE IT UP IF U DON"T WANT THE BABY.
2006-10-05 08:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think of the consequences before engaging in sexual activity. Some people use abortion as a form of birth control and that is just plain wrong. If your going to have sex and are not wanting a baby USE PROTECTION.
2006-10-05 08:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Darcee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You play with fire, you must pay the consequences. That's life. Abortion is murder! Have you ever seen that process? That child didn't ask to be sent here. Suck it up and deal with it!
2006-10-05 08:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by Angie B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rot in hell, moron.
2006-10-05 08:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by jessiekatsopolous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋