me and my friend both like a guy. he is really cute. we have been fighting over him. tis gu i like really cute, but if we keep fighting and i really want to stop fighting, but i don't want to stop liking him. What should i do?
2006-10-05 01:02:58 · 9 answers · asked by Kirsten B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you like your friend more, then sacrifice the guy for your best friend. Otherwise... ditch your best friend, but i don't recommend that.
2006-10-05 01:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Pierre . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your friend that it's not worth fighting over and ruining a perfectly good friendship. This guy will make up his own mind which one of you he wants to be with so tell her that you should both just back off. Let what ever is going to happen happen and no matter what you'll still be her friend. Otherwise he may not pick either one of you just to avoid all the drama. Trust me she'll come around and think the same way. Just to be on the safe side though give him a jag of that stuff cats and dogs fight over.......she'll never know!!
2006-10-05 08:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by Barry DaLive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, speaking as a guy...I would be totally flattered if I knew two cute girls liked me. At the same time, I wouldn't want to be the cause of two good friends having an argument.
Does this guy know you two like him? Is he just going to let you two fight over him? What should happen, is you and your friend need to come to an agreement that whichever of you this guy chooses, the other will be okay with it, and be happy for the other. It may also happen that this guy likes some other girl, and you and your friend will end up having fought for nothing.
Either way, I think you and your friend should stay friends..which means you and your friend rejoice in each other's good news.
2006-10-05 08:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the end, it will be this guy who will ultimately decide who he wants to be with. In the meantime, you and your friend are fighting over something the both of you have no control over. It is ok to like the same people that others like. Liking someone is NOT an EXCLUSIVE act.
2006-10-05 08:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he even asked either of you out??? Or have you just been fighting over the fact that you like him??? Grow up!!!
2006-10-05 08:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is so Cut!! then why you both need to fight??? more then one girls can like one man. isn't it?? Or one of you want to pursue him?? make a deal. go for his opinion. make sure to whom he like, or like most. Girl to whom he like, stay with him. second one step back and better stay as a good friend.. Get a life baby. Good luck.
2006-10-05 08:23:12 · answer #6 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like your more of a lover than a fighter...
tell him friend that you like this dude... and make a move..if it works out, then u have a man...
then to sort out your friend u have to play it cool... like really play it down that you got the dude... just go about being friends again...
if all goes well you'll get a win-win situation
2006-10-05 08:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Challenge her to one final fight, then roundehouse her face off!!
2006-10-05 08:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sawcutting Shogun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he wants! simple!
2006-10-05 08:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by fbi_know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋