how do i get my boyfriend to see that his, bad influenced friend is trying to steal from me? ie my purse went missing. what tricks can i do to catch him out ? i need proof because if i told him he wouldm't believe me...
2006-10-05 00:38:05 · 21 answers · asked by tanj_maria 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if he takes his friends word over yours then he is not much of a boyfriend. Get rid of them both.
2006-10-05 00:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by Val 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to be 100% positive before making that claim, are you sure you havn't just misplaced your purse?
If you are convinced that you are the victim off theft, then you could (when the friend is present) mention that you need to contact the police as you think someone maybe letting themselves into the property somehow and thieving.
Or you could put some red dye in a dummy purse.
Or you could just be straight up and tell your boyfriend, he should really take your side if he thinks anything of you.
2006-10-05 07:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Panther 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen your previous posts.
You are getting a complex about you boyfriends friend.
You do not have any evidence of foul play from your boyfriends friend.
You have to understand it's not your position to split up your boyfriend from his friends.
Presumably you want the best for your boyfriend, well great, if you really do you'll let make up his own mind. You wouldn't want anybody telling you you could be your friend and who couldn't.
Suspect but I don't know if you're being jealous or clingy, only you know this, If you please remember these are not positive emotions.
Don't mess up his friendships they make him stronger for you.
If you don't like you boyfriends friend you don't have to hang around with them when they are together or alternatively you could try to like his friend.
2006-10-05 09:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to think of some fast. What a f**ker. I once left a phone out with the alarm set and left the room so she would take it before the alarm went off. It went off as she was making her excuses to leave. Set up your camcorder. Lots of people leave them lying around, just press record before he comes in and leave some money lying about. Come on girl, us women have great devious ideas. Get cracking and good luck
2006-10-05 07:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Teresa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah your boyfriend should know.. and you definitely need proof before you go about splitting your man's best mate...
so the best way is to get your boyfriend to get the idea that his mate is stealing from you...
only thing i could think of at the moment is to maybe go to your boyfriends place when his mates there and give something valuable of yours to your boyfriends to put somewhere (like your phone, wallet on the table) then later if it goes missing you can ask your boyfriend and he would come to the conclusion that his mates stealing...
2006-10-05 07:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to prove that his friend is trying to steal from you. Your word should be enough. The two of you together should devise a plan 'to catch a thief'.
2006-10-05 07:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A really tuff one my friend it has happend to me a few times the best suggestion is leave nothing around someone can take but if they come to your house it is near impossible sorry this is a sad fact it happens somewhere everyday .
2006-10-05 07:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not i had a friend hu did somthin like this... i know it sounds weird but she just tied a string to her and her wallet n when she put it in her purse she set it behind her and cought her boyfriend tuggin on the wallet
2006-10-05 07:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you try to convince your BF about his friend the less he is likely to listen. speak to him and tell him it is his choice but outline the reasons you don't like his friend it is then your choice whether you compromise over thsi frienhd or ultimatley ditch your bf because of him. It is also your boyfriends choice if you are important enough to him to drop the loser to make things better with you. good luck!
2006-10-05 07:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have now asked 4 questions regarding getting shut of your boyfriends mate...for goodness sake just talk to him and then let this be his decision as I say he is his own free spirit
2006-10-05 07:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋