no kids involved
2006-10-05 00:14:03 · 17 answers · asked by SteelJazz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Time, thats really the only thing. Good luck
2006-10-05 00:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am speaking from experience on the subject of the big "D" known as divorce...... Some divorces take longer than other to heal emotionally...especially if the relationship you had was abusive. It took me nearly 3 yrs to more or less put the X behind me....but even after being divorced from him for over 25 years there are times a glimpse of haunting (abuse) streaks across my memory.....and only makes me thankful I got out when I did!
Time heals all broken hearts. Give yourself time. but....don't make the heartache of divorce a tangible something to HOLD ON to and cleave to. If you do that you'll never heal from your DIVORCE.
Get a hobby...get involved...take a fun class at the local college....take up a sport...do anything to keep yourself occupied so that your mind and brain don't wander into the PITY party routine of the POOR ME...I"M DIVORCED!!!
Good luck and happy heart healing!
2006-10-05 07:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved away from the area and got a new job, I concentrated on keeping busy and starting to find new friends. I also had a total make-over which was a real confidence boost. I immersed myself in a new hobby and went and did some volunteer work in a dogs home. After a while the pain lessens.
2006-10-05 07:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In time there will be more good days than bad. Get involved in something, date , go out with buddys and explore the world. Don't just sit around, life is too short, do things you enjoy.
2006-10-05 07:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Pat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
takes time, but time heals all broken hearts. you need to fill your day w / activities and people. don't just sit around an dwell on the past. learn from your mistakes in life an learn to live again. there is life after divorce , you just have to get up an go for it. ya know prayer helps when you are feeling as if you have no one at all. when you pray you will be uplifted , i promise!
2006-10-05 07:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time doesn't help, its a lie. You are the only one who can help to yourself.
Usually, married people are loosing there own identity, trying to be better for other part they are loosing them self's and becoming not interesting for their partners.
I hope that you have a job, your own friends, hobby's and life plans. If you have, then I really can not see why would you be worried. You just lost your partner, and believe me its wonderful when 2 persons, realizing that they are not one for another, do brave move and get divorced. I know many unhappy people living in married and hate one another.
That means that you just fixed one thing in your life machine and you are going to drive for now one better.
Good lack
2006-10-05 08:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by njanja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time time give it time keep busy think of all the bad times you had with him i got a little pet dog she has me going all the time she rides on my Harley she gos with me all over dogs will love you and you can love them back that helped me a lot if you had kids that would work to keep real busy take a drive to see old friends a new guy can help i know love hurts a lot sorry for you good luck
2006-10-05 08:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky no kids involved...time will be on your side and help you. Supporting you all the way...good luck. Things will be brighter for you. Hang in there...
2006-10-05 07:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by TL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Starting something new... a routine, a hobby... anything to get you out of the way you did things while you were married. That way, you're not constantly reminded of certain events and occasions from your marriage.
2006-10-05 07:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
really only time heals, but you can keep yourself busy picking up your life, by focusing on "YOU" church, working, a hobby, there are so many things, Just know in your heart all things happen for a reason and it will work out for you. Good luck...
2006-10-05 07:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Destiny D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
takes time, i had to move away because the ex and new girlfriend lived right across the street from me. its been over 2 years now, and it does get easier as time passes. just be glad their were no children and you don't have to see this person again.
2006-10-05 08:32:00 · answer #11 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋