I've been married for about 1 year and 4 months to be exact. I've been to a ob-gyn. But until now nothings happen. I'm tired of taking fertiliy pills. Sometimes i gave up. I was wondered and afraid whats wrong with me? Everybody say a healthy couple conceives at least a year. We have sex almost everyday so i get pregnant but still nothing happens. I'm afraid that i can't conceive. Many also says that the more you expect the less to have it. No stress!!!! But i was really afraid that i can't never have a baby. Sometimes i fell pity. Why some people are given but they don't want it? It's so hard to get pregnant.
2006-10-04 23:52:53 · 6 answers · asked by liendy_13 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Having sex everyday is far too often (if your trying to concieve) . it takes 3 or 4 days for a mans sperm count to build up, so try having sex more like twice per week. After sex stay lying down for a while to help the sperm along, and dont stress because its true..it makes it harder to concieve. mabye you and your partner could take a break from baby making for a couple of months, Many couples do this and often find they concieve easily after a break. Its estimated that 4 out of 5 normal fertile couples concieve within the first year of trying, That means that 20% of healthy couples still havnt concieved in a year, so its still often considered normal that you havnt concieved (although frustrating im sure) Best of Luck :-)
2006-10-05 00:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by psycgirl25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As infinite as nature is, our science will not be able to solve everything, so try not to stress and don't let this situation take the romance and fun out of your intimate relationship.
In my opinion, everyday is too often, four-five days a week should be more than sufficient. Also, try having your husband wear boxers and not briefs, as breifs restrict the scrotum and can lower sperm count.
Aside from that, just let this happen in its own time and in the meanwhile, enjoy the time you and your man get to spend together:)
2006-10-05 00:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 12 years, never used protection with my husband and got pregnant for the first time a little over 2 years ago. I had a miscarriage then. It took us almost 2 years to get pregnant again. After we stopped trying we concieved. Trying everyday will lower your husbands sperm count also. I hope all works out for you and your husband, good luck.
2006-10-05 00:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by shorty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey.. sorry to hear about that it must be so stressfull. You should maybe stop trying everyday and only try when you are most fertile (so that your husband gets him sperm count back up! LOL).. i will give you a site i am about to use to conceive my 2nd baby. All you have to do is register and its all free. Hope it works for you both!
www.yourdays.com
2006-10-05 00:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jordy[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are trying too hard. Step back a little and let nature take its course. If the doctors didn't see a problem, you wouldn't be taking fertility pills. Don't give up.
2006-10-05 00:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but it is fun trying, huh?
2006-10-05 00:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by texan_mailman 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋