Why do we place so much pressure on girls who love sex? Guys don't get as much flack.....if a girls enjoys sex with many partners she is considered a sl*t or hoe yet a guy is considered "studly"
2006-10-04 23:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by ang_172 3 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
your 100 % right and its sad, but it has something to do with the way people have been educated for the past 100 years or so, i think females have as much right to enjoy sex as males with out all the name calling
2006-10-04 23:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 21 when I married my first wife. She had an unbounded sexual appetite. Within three weeks I was reduced to a worn out shell, completely exhausted and she kept me that way for a total of nine months. Then she left. Of course I found out later she had seduced damn near every man in that little town we lived in. I was a mess, I was unable to work all that time and when she left, there was nothing. I started doing odd jobs and as I got stronger did more. Within four months I had a steady job and was doing pretty good. I have been many places and done many things since that time. Got married again when I was 27, it lasted 31 years. Ended one day when she told me she wanted to live alone. So here I am almost 10 years later, retired, nice apartment wonderful girlfriend and happily single.
Most people are hypocrites. Fathers want their son’s to sow their seeds but want to lock their daughters away. Mothers want their daughters to marry rich, damn the love.
Society looks down on any one that is different. Why? Because they are scared. They like to put labels on others and put them in tidy little boxes and hope for the day that they can’t tell one person from another. Do I hate or condemn nymphomaniacs? No!! They have an urge just like smokers or heavy drinkers do. I condemn the drinkers who drive drunk. They are the ones that can kill you.
2006-10-05 00:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by bigbore454 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl who loves sex is ever "BAD" to the guy she's having sex with. That's something to think about right there.
Other girls may not like her because she will take attention from them, when it comes to OTHER guys those girls want. This is because males are basically sexually attracted to girls who like sex. (heaven for f-ing bid)
But even girls who pretend not to like sex... want sex. However, the fact that they act like they DON'T want sex, makes guys LESS attracted to them. ... TRUST me... I'm a guy.
It's only bad to the HEALTH of the girl if she's continuousely having a lot of sex, with a lot of different partners. AIDS (Being the BIG one) and many other diseases are more likely to be trans...insterted.
The reasons why it's "Bad" are:
1. The health issue.
2. Sex is also linked to relationships. Since a relationship with someone is something that lasts longer than the sexual intercourse, and is more beneficial in the long term, then sex shouldn't destroy a relationship. People believe that sex with someone other than the person you are having the relationship with DESTROYS that relationship, and therefore, destroys something beneficial. (Anybody can understand this.. don't have sex with my wife)
3. Respect. Guys will have sex with a girl and not respect her. That's why some girls will hold off from sex, to see if a guy DOES respect her. This is a self esteem issue... but it doesn't mean that wanting sex is bad. It's circumstancial.. to a point.
If a guy respects you, he will stay with you and be a provider for any offspring you may have due to the sex. If not... bye daddy.
Anyways... if you like sex, the advice I can give you is make ONE guy... REALLY happy. Get yourself an honest boyfriend and ... crank his brains out. Any guy in his right mind would love it, and you would too. (Smiley face here)
2006-10-05 00:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kren777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just the difference of culture between guys and girls. For guys, at an early age, its like a badge of honor. All their friends think its cool, and whatnot. For girls, it seems to be a point of stress and "fretting". It's a retarted system, but girls have their good points as well.
2006-10-04 23:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Rvardell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's true and it is called "double standard morality"...
I really enjoy having sex more than my boyfriends usually do...and I find it kind of frustrating if they cannot keep up with me.
2006-10-04 23:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A complete wonderment
2006-10-04 23:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love girls who love sex. I certainly dont see them as Ho's unless they actually are a Ho
2006-10-04 23:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by poli_b2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way American society is, hypocritical. Men and women who are so afflicted, are sick and need help.
2006-10-04 23:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the ol' double standard....
2006-10-05 00:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by JerseyRick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with a nympho!!! it`s all good!
2006-10-04 23:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by brock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋