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I think my best friend is falling in love w/me, how can i discourage her before it ruins our friendship. I dont have "that feeling" for her

2006-10-04 23:48:46 · 6 answers · asked by Zamar 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

6 answers

The best thing to do is come on out and tell her how you feel. Don't drag it out' The longer you do the more she is going to feel for you' And the more it's going to hurt when you tell her. Don't let her completely fall for you with out telling her. It will make her feel like a fool and she will not want to be around you any more.

2006-10-04 23:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0 0

Well just talk it over with her and ask her how she feels about you first before you do something you'll regret later on in life ok because you could be wrong about the whole thing and if she is a friend of any kind then she will understand.

2006-10-05 07:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just play along but stay open, don't go too close but also not too far. Soon she'll know that your friendship is much better than getting into a love relationship.

2006-10-05 07:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0 0

Don't tell her that you don't have such feelings to her, it will hurt her deeply. Just stop seeing her often, or talking to her on the phone. And, as if by chance, say that you have a girlfriend and that relationship is serious, even if you don't have a girlfriend.

2006-10-05 07:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by lugil 2 · 0 0

just be friendly and don't often call her out and when she contact you to come out say you are busy.. the less time you see one another hopful she will look for someone else to love =) or give her hints..that you are not really intersted in her than her friend.

2006-10-05 06:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0 0

omg.. this is the saddest thing ever.. well, all u can do is talk to her.. really really nicely.. really really clearly.. tell her straight forward but not in a rude or harsh way... never ever treat her differently after rejecting her.. she will hate her life..just like me.. but it's a good thing i didn't commit suicide..

2006-10-05 06:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by lemonieHm 2 · 0 0

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